It is not.

Edit: you absolutely did, admin doesn't owe you an explanation. But beyond that here are your posts:

I'm very skinny, 25 yo (BMI 16). I have very low muscle building potential because of my small frame. Can I still be masculine

Long story short I started working out 24, I'm extremely skinny, (121 lbs at 5'8 after lifting and eating in a calorie surplus for 3 months). I've realized that natural progress is much slower than I'd realized. I never lifted before in my life and so at 24 I basically have the physique of an inactive 15 year old. It would take years for me to even begin to look my age. I just want to look good while I'm still in my 20s. First I considered TRT but my T levels are normal so I think what I actually need is a cycle.

Maybe I am a bit of an outsider there. Just seems to me that there are a lot of guys not weight training for muscle bulk gain who doing just fine in life, fine with other men and fine with women. There are some jacked guys with lots of plates, there are some who are henpecked husbands and some who are incels. So I end up thinking its not really that big a deal how jacked a guy is.

I think its got more to do with how the man see's himself. Getting muscular is one way to fairly earn self respect. You can't buy a great body. I think that is the crucial thing here. If a man feels he is improving himself by hard work, that will be a huge confidence boot. He has earned his body. If he felt intimidated by bigger guys, he will feel more confident. If women never noticed him for anything, at least he is noticed for achieving muscles (which are a manly thing) and then he feels good and he starts talking confidently with women. But this is all for a guy who doesn't have enough elsewhere in life to be proud and confident about so that the muscles matter to him.

From what you say, in your case, you have done the hard work but the rewards have not come, so you have not increased your self respect as much as you had hoped -which is pretty tough and I do sympathise because you made the commitment and did the work.

I am a bit concerned how much excess baggage you have put on your frame. You are not your best self carrying 70lbs. What if you were to lose it and become a weight class power lifter? That I would get. Then if you really want we can talk about AAS. Cruise and blast test? add winny cycles that won't add too much weight? add deca to offset the dryness of winny or try BP157 and TB500 instead because of shorter detection windows? What about PT 141 and/ or cialis to offset deca dick if you get it? what to do for your liver and your HDL Cholesterol? Its a pandora's box. But all the messing your body about might be worth it if you were winning even on a personal level. Women would get it too if you started to win on a public level. What a guy looks like is not as important as if he is a winner. Success is really all you want to achieve for yourself and for women.

I had a good illustration of this the other day. One of my daughters (a pretty and popular girl who is a reigning regional endurance running champion) crashed out of the big local road race that she had been tipped to win. She had a vomiting bug and could not stop throwing up at the road side one mile from the finish. A crowd of local women supporters and a paramedic were with her by the time I got there. The first thing she asked me when she could speak was how her boyfriend got on. "He won the whole race" Everything changed. The women (most of whom I don't think know the guy as he is from the next town) started to congratulate her like she had won. Later on her social media were photos of her with the bunch of flowers he was given when he got his medal and cheque. The guy is not jacked, not tall, not rich, wears glasses, acts Beta by buying small gifts and texting several times a day to check how she is and he has pretty terrible acne too but he is a sound guy who applies himself and succeeds. Just about every woman in town was jealous of her by the end of the day even though she was vomiting at a roadside in defeat.

They win when you win. But when you try hard its nothing to them without success (because they do not gain benefit as per Briffault). So you need to find something where you can succeed if you are doing this to achieve gains with women.

What you have proved to yourself is that you can dedicate yourself and try. This is a huge personal win and will set you up for better things, now go and get a public win somewhere where you are naturally capable.