i noticed that if i don't focus on a woman's assets for 5-10 seconds with full focus, i don't get horny, aka i don't want to fuck her so i don't take steps to fuck her. i don't see her as a sexual thing. is this normal? (what is your normal?)

maybe constant anxiety in background is making me less horny?

if relevant, i started taking solgar male multivitamins and its making me very tired or sleepy. but after i quit taking it for 2 nights in a row, i feel really great.

my T is on the lower end but within healthy range.