i noticed that if i don't focus on a woman's assets for 5-10 seconds with full focus, i don't get horny, aka i don't want to fuck her so i don't take steps to fuck her. i don't see her as a sexual thing. is this normal? (what is your normal?)
maybe constant anxiety in background is making me less horny?
if relevant, i started taking solgar male multivitamins and its making me very tired or sleepy. but after i quit taking it for 2 nights in a row, i feel really great.
my T is on the lower end but within healthy range.
whytehorse2021 3mo ago
Low libido is a sign of low T. What they call the healthy range for T includes 90yr old diabetic men. I was told I had normal T when it was 264 because above 263 is "normal". With every supplement imaginable I was able to get it up to 311. Still not enough to restore libido, maintain muscles, and be anti-depressed. I got on TRT and now my lowest levels reach 400 and highest about 600 and I am healthy and happy.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3mo ago
I think you're overthinking.
Musicgoon78 1 3mo ago
You might like men. This is ok. It's just not the norm for this space.
I don't think any supplements are going to reverse your gayness.
First-light 3mo ago
Could be a porn exposure thing? Could be anxiety giving you tunnel vision of only what you focus on?
I find that the women worth going for are the ones who seem to pull you in even if you try to pull away, the ones you find your eyes drifting to even if you try not to, the ones you find you know their scent when they approach from behind, you like their walk, light almost attaches to them, you even somehow know the colour of their eyes. They always feel good to hold and kiss. These are the ones you are matched to biologically. Learn to just relax around females and let your sexuality find the women you like, just like a compass needle finds North if you stop twirling it about trying to find it yourself.
MrSupreme 3mo ago
Removing your mind and focus from sexuality is just common practice,you'd probably do it when studying or at work,maybe playing a videogame. You're just not thinking with your dick,that's all.congrats,great find