went to the bar last night to meet up w a plate but ran into another one of my plates and decided to go home with her instead.
she’s one of my hotter plates so throughout the night, guys would keep approaching trying to hit on her. Most tried to ask me if she was my girl; I just grinned and said “ask her yourself buddy” each time. Made fun of them w her after they left. To her credit she did fuck them all off except…
End of the night as we’re leaving some bitchass townie firefighter dude that’s taller than me and has gainz approached. In the moment did my best to act completely unphased; chirped him ab being a firefighter and not a student “oh so when you’re not chasing false alarms do you just like to hang out at the college bars or what?”
At first we all did leave; she didn’t give him her number. Walked into pizza shop across the st and this fag followed us there and started talking to her AGAIN as we walked out. It took a lot of self control to not fully roid rage at this point but I managed to keep it together. once I realized she wasn’t fucking him off I just started walking away w one of my boys. She still went home w me after like a wholeass 5minutes but im pretty positive she gave him her number (gross).
I grabbed a slice of pizza, saved the crust and said “you get the crust for talking to crusty ass townies” with a shit eating grin. She chirped me for being a man slut, we laughed n whatever played it off like nothing, went home and fucked her brains out.
Idk just kinda annoyed that she allowed it to happen in my presence. Is this something im supposed to scold her on? Or would I be breaking frame by acknowledging she pissed me off?
Update: just opened ig and saw a Robert Greene quote from 48 laws of power that applies here real well; figured I’d sauce it on.
“An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power, a mistake that will cost you a lot more than any temporary satisfaction you might gain by expressing your feelings.”
Testme 1d ago
It's her responsibility to turn him off. When guys hit on my girlfriend, she says nothing and gives them an icy stare or just ignores them like they do not exist.
If she talks to some other guy, then your reaction should be go talk to some other girl, preferably one hotter than her.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 2w ago
If she's just a plate, then there's no reason to care what she does. Just file the info away, and remember it if she ever seeks an upgrade.
EurasianChad 1 2w ago
She is a plate, not your wife.
You really can't control who she gives her number to. Acting any way affected by that just gives her ammo to piss you off if she tries to reel you in a for a relationship in the future. Now she knows how to trigger you.
Robert Greene is correct. But who cares man. Just keep it moving and learn from the experience.
dingleberry299 2w ago
aweee you have a gf
coolsocks00 1 2w ago
Taking an active leading role doesnt equate you to a mate guarding beta. Much better than faking being unphased, especially with a girl you’re already fucking on the reg. With your gane she’ll feel free and unattached to give herself to the next best thing as soon as he shows up because you legit dont seem to care.
If you have want to lose your plate thats one thing. Being okay with it if it should happen is another.
financehardo420 2w ago
I don’t necessarily want to lose the plate but I know plates generally break at some point or another. Just cause she’s pretty doesn’t mean she’s LTR quality or anything like that
coolsocks00 1 2w ago
But you could just lead her away from guys interrupting your night. Instead you were butthurt because a woman didnt lead or act like your GF when she had no reason to.
financehardo420 2w ago
Ah I see what you’re saying. I mean we were leaving that fuckstick followed us
Redpillpusher 3w ago
Why are you annoyed? You stated she is a plate, not your girl, & she owes you nothing. She's no idiot; she ran into you at a bar. She knows you were there with the same mission as her, she even called you a man slut. This is 1 of the consequences of living in a sexually liberal society, the women behave similarly to men when it comes to getting some. You've benefited from this reality yet get agitated at the some of the side effects? Y'all are friends with benefits; friends don't cockblock friends nor do they get in their feelings when a friend scores. Honestly the firefighter did more to disrespect you than her; he didn't know how serious y'all were yet still approached
financehardo420 3w ago
You’re right tbh. That’s pretty much what I said to myself to calm myself down. If he wasn’t significantly bigger than me; I honestly might’ve tried to throw hands lmao. I’m on testosterone right now and the second time he approached had me internally SIZZLING. Maybe the t is making me a bit more territorial I guess I don’t even know
Redpillpusher 3w ago
No, it wasn't just the T, your gut instinct was correct. You could've established your boundaries without going from 0 to 100 in 5 seconds, though. Similar situation happened to me so if I were you then, I would've made no small talk with the guy and called him out loudly & directly, "She's nice and single & We all gotta shoot our shots but you're not gonna act like you don't see me right here." 50/50 chance it would've escalated but I don't tolerate blatant disrespect, other guys might have other opinions and I might be wrong but that's how I'd feel
financehardo420 3w ago
I need to hurry up and get my damn shoulder back in order so I can properly assert dominance. Those kind of situations suck ass for me bc actual fighting would probably result in severe damage to it rn
oowiw 3w ago
You have finance in your name, you can calculate the risk reward ratio here right? Fighting over a woman is a bad deal, win or lose.
First-light 3w ago
Good reply.
In this modern age there is almost no situation in which a woman is worth fighting for. I can't imagine one in which it would make sense but maybe something I can't think of would turn up, so I won't actually dismiss the idea.
But if you fight over a local slag, when you are a slag yourself, then you have got all mixed up over priorities. You are making your ego bigger than it deserves to be and then fighting for it. This is a dangerous self delusion.
whytehorse2021 3w ago
I'm surprised you would even think of fighting in such a litigious country. Besides, that firefighter knows every cop in town. And you're coming up on completing college. A felony will instantly kill any job prospects. And every place has cameras now.
Any excess testosterone you don't use will be converted to estrogen unless you're taking aromatase inhibitors. Estrogen will make you as emotional as a woman. This is what causes roid rage.
financehardo420 3w ago
“took a lot of self control to not fully roid rage at this point but I managed to keep it together”
not currently on any AI; but im also only running 200mg/week in two doses. not doing anything toooo crazy and im working out consistently with cardio+proper hydration.
the roid rage bit was a bit more of a joke than being deadass about it but you’re right. I don’t really get into fights I’d be more likely to walk away than actually fight (esp bc of my shoulder).
whytehorse2021 3w ago
You won't be able to walk away in a few weeks. That's what I'm saying. It took me about 30 days to get to extremely high E levels on just 150mg/wk. "only 200mg/wk" is double the TRT dose that I take. You're lucky you don't have high body fat to aromatize T but there's always fat and aromatization.
I got to a point where I was yelling at my wife over a cup that had spots on it. E is really bad and you're naive to it so it will be much worse than a woman. Get AIs and take them religiously or suffer the fate of everyone else before you that didn't.
financehardo420 3w ago
I hellaaaa don’t want to hop on any AIs if I can avoid it; have heard/read really bad things. All I know is it’s doing fuckin wonders for my shoulder.
But I might be starting to get affected just like water retention n shit my weight fluctuates like crazy esp if I don’t drink enough water or eat too many carbs etc etc.
whytehorse2021 3w ago
Yeah estrogen will work miracles on your joints and memory. It will also give you boobs :). You only need a tiny amount, not the crazy amounts you get while juicing.
financehardo420 3w ago
So far thank the lord almighty no gyno lol. I have been hella careful w diet n shit though and avoiding tf out of booze/weed
whytehorse2021 2w ago
food, booze, and weed never gave anybody boobs. Only estrogen.
financehardo420 2w ago
Ehhh plenty of research that suggests booze (esp beer) increases estro; pot lowers test, and high bodyfat percent encourages your body to aromatize more than if you’re lean etc etc
whytehorse2021 2w ago
Booze lowers T which increases the E2:T ratio. It doesn't increase E2. High concentration THC lowers T if taken frequently, as seen with vapes. But yeah I agree body fat allows more aromatization.
The high you're getting off juicing is from DHT. Just another aromatization product of excess T. I remember it like it was yesterday.
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