It's incredibly dumb for you to make assumptions. Work on your abundance. Spin more plates and stop getting so butthurt.

You jumped on the express train to Negativitytown.

Find something to do this weekend then tell her you planned something else with "another friend" since she couldn't make clear plans but that you will make it up to her. Don't you fucking dare just pretend you are busy; schedule something and go do it.

Once your plans are made, do not change them if she comes around and beg, try to squeeze her in instead.

The worst thing you can do is sit on your ass and hope she'll give you the privilege of her second hand pussy.

Good on you for getting laid… BUT:

1. You’re in dangerous oneitis territory and you need to fix this asap. if you aren’t seeing multiple women it’s always gonna end bad. that might seem like a scary daunting task considering your lack of exp but you just gotta do it. it’s like as necessary as hitting your protein goals for the gym.

2. She is definitely getting railed by Chad and you are definitely backup dick.

3. Talking every day = bad. hit her up to make plans and that’s about it.

4. You need a thriving social life - have some good friends around you that you can go out with. You need hobbies - a sport or some shit of that nature. You need the gym. You need other women too. Lastly you need your purpose - the grind whatever that may be. View your career as being a professional athlete in a sport - spend time improving your skills if you’ve got nothing else to do. Those are your primary lines of defense from being stuck in the predicament of being “Mr. Available 24/7 with no better plans to be some bitch’s backup plan”. Then your response would be more like “oh sorry I’ve been absolutely slammed w work and then me n the guys got a table to go see mau p; I’ve just been too hungover to respond my b”

"Sure! Hit me up, and we'll see. Can't promise anything though".

And then, if she does follow up on Friday, you've already made plans (real plans, not imaginary plans).

You're already understanding the dynamics, just need more practice.

Just reschedule, never be the plan B.

This isn't what other people said but girls often don't hang out as much when family is in town. I think too many of you guys view that as lying and getting railed by Chad instead of that a woman making more time for family during family weeks (especially if they can't introduce you yet to them) can be fairly normal and especially if she's close enough to her parents that her parents will judge her for not being available for the other parts of the family

Closeness to family isn't a red flag....

Now if after her family leaves and she is still flakey and dumb and things have obviously changed you have your answer.

Too many of you guys conflate certain things with getting her back blown out by Chad instead of seeing if it returns to normalcy after a reason she gives.

Should she make a bit of time for you, yeah, but if it's family, that is one of the few excuses I'm willing to flex on for flakiness

Its tricky in this case because you don't know her yet. Good loyal girl, values family, of course she will be with her family first not some guy she just met 6 dates ago, she should be ashamed to be banging him already and should not want to let her family see him yet until she knows he's solid. Massive slut will say she has family in town when bigger Chad calls her up. Other possibilities exist in between.

So don't do anything too decisive or jealous looking. You may have to get more info and just accept this one. There is no perfect way to play an unknown situation. Fresh enthusiasm has to calm a little at some point. "Lets plan something solid next weekend (make suggestion), if you are free this weekend try me" Then if you can arrange to see some friends do. Your friends have probably missed you the last few weeks. You never know you might still be bale to fit in banging her around seeing your friends if she came free.

Be sure to ask about the family visit the weekend after and see the pics if you can work it in without looking jealous. Show her some of your family snaps first maybe. If there is no evidence -downgrade her to trashy entertainment when free. If there are see it as neutral or possibly positive, she is loyal and so long as not too clingy to a nightmare mother, that's a good thing.