And theeeeere we go again

You're trapped in anger phase and still probably got a foot in the door still from the denial stage before it

Dude. Figure out what your fucking problem is. Women do not act like this towards cool, fun, confident men.

YOU

Are doing something wrong. Not

THEM

Why can’t I just get lucky once? I feel like I’m playing on nightmare difficulty with how many girls refuse to give me a chance. Maybe I’m an undiagnosed autist or something

What are you doing with your life? Are you working, studying? And in your free time, any hobbies? Hanging out with friends? Reading? Hiking? Climbing? Playing the piano/guitar/cello/clarinet? Learning karate/kung fu/boxing? Learning french/russian/italian/japanese?

Here's the thing: women are not important. Focus on yourself, on living a fun life, on learning and creating stuff. and you'll see how valuable your time is. Besides, you'll be interesting. You'll have stuff to talk about. When you sit down in a table with five chicks and two other guys, soon enough they'll all be listening to you talking - about how german is surprisingly close to english, or how you failed at making a Beef Wellington (but you took notice of what went wrong and next time it'll come out great), about why blues is so simple and yet so hard to play. Your time will be valuable - you won't waste it trying to get that girl to open her legs to you; either she'll open or won't, but she has five minutes to decide because you've got stuff to do.

holy shit I didn’t think it was even possible to be THIS MUCH OF A FUCKIN SPERG in real life.

change your username to soyboy for accuracy.

something you’re saying has got to be inaccurate… you claim to be physically fit w/ visible abs there’s no shot you’re getting this bad of reactions from girls if you actually have solid muscle mass on you.

My best advice is just take it to absolute basics… smile when you talk; avoid saying weirdo ass cringey shit to girls. Clearly whatever approach you’ve been making towards chicks has not been working out - never do it again. definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting dif results.

Honestly idk maybe try tinder to just get used to how things work. If you’re in college and in a college town this should be pretty easy; get a bunch of matches and message all of em to try and get one to come smoke or something. If shawty slides to your crib by herself off tinder it’s basically a 100% lock to get laid unless your overwhelming betaness dries up her panties.

Acceptable conversation topics:

“Hey so where ya from?” What do you study? Did you play any sports in hs?

Pro sauce: they answer w no sports or something lame like golf you say something like “oh so you’re just wildly unathletic” vs if they say something like volleyball/track/etc “ah so that’s why you’re so hot”

Save the convos for in person too not over fuckin text like a goddamn sperg that’s tbh prob one of your major mistakes. And NEVER EVER call a bitch out for “dry texting”…. You shouldn’t even have enough convos over text to get to the point of getting dry texted.

Sidenote: until you have actually smashed a couple birdies you don’t have the right to call em bitches or hoes sperg boi. I really hope you’re not walking up to girls and saying shit like “sup bitch wanna fuck”.

This shit is a numbers game - very much akin to sales. If u suck at sales you’re gonna suck and getting bitches. Don’t take it so personal that you’re getting rejected left n right; sometimes u just gonna be willing to take 1000 no’s on the chin to get 1 single yes.

Stop calling girls out. Be confident or fake it. you go into an incounter looking to lose. Make conversation. Be fun and playful. Just try it. Get it through your thick skull it's hard for a guy to get laid. Accept it. You suck at pick up. Look at the bright side. You are interacting with attractive girls outside the fz. Not very affectively but thats a positive step. Most dweebs can't even do that. Keep trying. Keep improving. And stop being a bitch. You should be embarrassed.

Let me guess.... these are girls that you either

1. Find on OLD

2. Get their number from a cold approach.

There's your problems.

1. OLD is the dumpster. Its full of trash.

2. Cold approach number hunters. I could write half an hour on this. What I see is young men that just 'go through the motions'. They are number hunters, not pussy hunters. They approach young women, and their entire focus is on 'getting a number'. The pivor really early to the number exchange, and when they get it, they leave. Then they start with the texting.... and the texting goes on and on and on and on and on and on...... you get the drift.

The young guy thinks 'great -this is going well! I have texted her 40 times, and she has texted me back, and this has gone on over 1 week. That's the 'talking phase' done....nows the time to pivot to the 'big date'! So another 40 texts (over a 1 week period) back and forth, to 'arrange the date'. And then she flakes.

And the guy is confused. And angry. Why did she flake at the last minute????

BECAUSE she never had any intention of fucking this guy. The only thing she wanted was an orbiter to add to her collection of thirsty dudes that make her phone go bing. What she wants is her phone to bing. This is why she is 'talking to' about 5 guys at any one time. She gives her number out on the reg, to keep a healthy population of orbiters. That is why she always texts so short -its because she is managing a population of orbiters (not allowed to say the s word).

An orbiters role in her life is to make her phone go bing. This is why women are always on their phone. Their big fear is to be at the cafe with their friends, and no orbiter is texting them, but their friend is getting a stream of eager texts from thirsty dudes. (this means their friend wins).

Do you get it now?

Cool story bro but remember this is not your fucking diary. Do the work or dont, it’s up to you.

Dont spam the forums with shitposts.

You're way too young to be so desperate man. Try to calm down about this stuff. If you're this worked up when talking to girls no wonder they don't respond.

Most guys have given up on online dating. Either you're in the top 4.5% of men and women are pursuing you, or else you're just validating her ego. Cold approach is losing popularity as social media has taken over the sisterhood. So now social circle game is what's working. Mike Sartain has a group called Men of Action. Tuesday he does a free call-in show and you can ask him questions. He's on youtube. Just tune in and click on the link to join the call. I forget what time the call is at but it's late evening.

The only benefit in listening to flaky women when you are an inexperienced young man is to learn about the animal. You will learn what spins the hamster wheel and you will with time learn that you are being used. This is the only benefit. Otherwise don't waste time. An inexperienced young man listening to female angst is far, far less likely to get laid than if he just ignores all the crap.