She goes to this hotel all the time for hookups, I’m basically 100% certain I’m about to get someone’s seconds. Am I losing frame showing up or nah?
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BecomingABetterMan1 1mo ago
You're losing frame by not knowing what the fuck you want.
Do you want to get laid, yes or no? Are you okay with getting laid if it means getting someone else's seconds. yes or no?
Answer those questions, then do what the fuck you want. Congrats, you just did a frame.
AbusiveFather1 1mo ago
this is very solid advice. a lot of times it's not even about enduring attacks on your frame, but, like you pointed out, not even knowing what you want in the first place.
dreamer 1mo ago
I must say a lot of time I'm in doubt and a little afraid of not being able to satisfy her, so I do not push it
Can you advice some posts about having a frame ?
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Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
"a little afraid of not being able to satisfy her"
sounds like you have no self respect.
dreamer 1mo ago
Or just timid :D
OPStolen 1mo ago
Got gimped. Got there and she was drunk af. Thought it’d be easy. I keep making moves and she keeps pushing me away. I get in the second bed and pull up the covers. She gets upset I’m not interacting with her and keeps telling me to leave. I tell her “you invited me here and I came for one reason. If we’re not doing that I’m going to bed. I got work in the morning and brought my work clothes. It’s gonna be a 20min drive versus an hour drive from here”
She calls the first dude she hooked up with on FaceTime and he starts calling her a whore and saying she’s with someone. He starts talking about how I’m a lame, broke, bald ass nigga that don’t make money. I honestly got a reality check cause I was like “damn, two years ago, I really would have freaked out on a girl if I found out they were talking to other people. Now I know to assume by default. Dude sounds retarded”
Anyway, I was about to fall asleep and she starts rocking me saying I need to drive her home. I told her “Your lil boyfriend paid for my getaway, I’m sleeping here idgaf what you gotta do”. Keeps waking me up, so I tell her she can get an Uber and pay the fee for spilling drinks on the floor and walk out but I’m not doing nothing but going to sleep.
Sucks to suck but I have ONE backup chick I THINK I can depend on.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
wtf did I just read.
This sounds crap on so many levels. The women you interact with, and your own behaviour.
If a woman 'keeps telling you you got to leave' you leave. Leave the first time she says so, and then delete and block. If you don't learn this now, you're going to learn this the hard way. She is a lunatic, and lunatics have a habit of dragging you down with them.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
He said he'd harass women till he got laid, are you surprised he was trespassing after being asked to leave?
OPStolen 1mo ago
She busted my lip and I hit her over the head and slammed her against the door. Pulled her wig off and we still ended up making out. My lip hurts so bad I can’t eat or drink anything without it burning. But I won’t lose frame next time.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Yeah, you won't loose frame next time. You're gonna look really cool with those cuffs behind your back, in the back of the police car. Damn, you so macho, hittin da girls - you da man!
OPStolen 1mo ago
I won’t lose it next time. I’m practicing stoicism. I’ll keep it in check. My bad. I’ve been high off coke for the last month or so and It’s fucking up my emotions. I’m blowing up over everything.
I will get it together soon.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
content policy
Read the content policy, one and only warning.
Stop being a fucking retard on our site
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
I would ditch him ASAP. He is a liability.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
He's perma gone on the next indication of criminality
OPStolen 1mo ago
Where’s the content policy
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Literally in the red link that says "content policy"
OPStolen 1mo ago
My bad, I won’t do this again. I’m just trying to get it together. Im addicted to coke. I’ve been using it to talk to women and I had a few lines before I met up with her. It’s been making me super angry and emotional. I’ve been trying to figure it all out and get women at the same time and nothings working
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Yeah, that's never going to work.
Seriously, as @Vermillion-Rx says, game is the least of your issues right now.
If I were you I would call a drug rehab clinic, or helpline or do what you can to get off the drugs, today. Like right now. Then do some analysis on how you got there. Forget all about women until you are a functioning human being, because right now you are a walking car crash.
Dude, if you do not correct your course, you will likely end up dead or in prison within a short time period.
Forget about women, fix yourself asap.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Basically this.
"Guise what color should i paint my house????"
As their foundation is crumbling and their walls are in shambles and no roof
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Why do users always hurt their most massive problems. Asking about chicks when they are addicted to hard drugs.
Y'all need to be more transparent about your underlying problems
OPStolen 1mo ago
im sorry man, i just want to put my dick in something. I want a moment where I can fuck and lay in bed and get that crazy good after sex sleep where you’re holding someone and you’re not thinking and nothing is wrong with you. I just want that for one night.
I’m so high off coke right now my heart rate has been between 170 and 150 for the last hour. I’m out breath, I’m sad and mad at the same time. I’m about to lose it.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
If you can afford coke you can afford a prostitute...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Call a helpline or something
The problem with your posts is none of it is red pill it's just blue pilled neediness with PUA advice seeking
Get red pilled you're just floundering at this point. Get rid of the coke
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Is this a parody account?
OPStolen 1mo ago
No. I can’t get better women so I’m fucking whores and sluts
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
You can't better women that whores because you are a coked up john.
Get off the drugs today.
You are actually on the wrong site. head over to NA today.