Intra-sexual competition is a real thing. Perhaps a long time ago you could've killed another man and taken his woman and this would propagate your genes and solve your reproductive problem. So there's probably some underlying latent violent tendencies just because you're a male.

You probably also have what we call the anger phase, or red pill rage. You're angry that you've been lied to all your life and that everything you've been told has not solved your reproductive problem. This is why we tell people to read the sidebar... so that you can learn the truth about women and unlearn the lies. It's a long process because it transforms your mind, hence the name red pill.

One more thing, it seems like you got incomplete info. You said you work out and have muscles, you know all about hypergamy, you're able to approach women, etc... yet you get ghosted. Anyway, here's the complete deal: money+muscles+frame+game. Focus on the ones you haven't mastered. In another reply where I told you to read the shit test encyclopedia, that falls under game.

We've seen this kind of post lots and lots of times.

The answer is always the same. OP socially anxious and finds it hard to calibrate in social settings.

You know what women really screen for? Exactly that.

There is nothing that they like less than socially anxious spergs, the outcasts with no friends. Men think that women screen for height and muscles and cash, but the thing they really really really hate is incels. There is very very good biological reasons for this.

OP, I highly recommend that you forget all about women for a short time and focus on developing social skills, and curing your social anxiety. You are going to have to develop conversational skills (away from pulling). This is totally doable, and will stand you in good stead for every aspect of your life.

The trick is this - you need to be able to make friends, develop social networks. When a woman sees a happy, social, popular guy with plenty of friends, a guy that smiles and seems to have a way with everyone, she wants to be with that guy. She wants some of that.

When they see a socially akward dude, dribbling with aspergers, cold approaching girl after girl to shoot his shot, some tatty PUA scripts, only to be rejected over and over, she thinks - god, what a loser.

Tell us about your friendship circles - how many friends do you have? Hobbies? How do you spend your free time? Your weekends?

I haven't read all the replies yet, so bear with me if I repeat what anyone else already said.

I have a jealousy problem. I can't stop feeling jealous towards guys who fuck and have fwbs. I have this seething anger, it makes me so pissed that some guys can get sex so casually

No, you have an envy problem. Envy is when you want what someone else has and you don't.

Jealousy is when you are wary of others seeking to take what's yours, hence the phrases "jealous husband/wife" or "jealously guard".

I'm about to graduate college with 0 experience

A lot of us were late bloomers. I didn't get my first kiss until 18, and I didn't get my second kiss until 22 (and almost done with college). My second kiss was also the night I finally lost my virginity.

However, as I read and tried different PUA stuff (this was way before Red Pill), things came together for me and I hit my stride. I made up for a lot of lost time before I fucked up and got married.

The great thing about being a man is that it's never too late to start; it's just more difficult. Andv yes, it's easy to kick ourselves over past fuckups. As my PUA readings about IOIs started to click, I obsessively thought back over almost every interaction with a girl/woman and kicked myself at all the missed opportunities. I wasn't unattractive; I was just oblivious and so missed the signs of the ones who wanted me and wasted a lot of time pursuing and being led on by ones who didn't and never would.

I'm rambling a bit, but there's a chance you'll get something out of this.

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OK. Nowhere in here did you say what you've tried, what work you've done, what sidebar material you've read.

What are your one-rep maxes for barbell bench press? Barbell back squat? Barbell deadlift?

What fitness programs are you doing?

How's your hygiene? Do you go days without washing your nasty balls and asscrack?

Have you read anything from the sidebar? A quick skim of the other comments makes me think you haven't.

In fact, I'm stopping this one and reading the other comments, and probably fixing to roast you for being a lazy whiner.

It's over, dude. You've already looked at the books. And as we all know, looking at books is the pinnacle of self improvement. Once you've looked at enough books, and it's still not working for you, there really isn't much more you can do. Btw, what's your favourite book to look at?

I made some comments, but want to give you some more.

Way back when I was in college. I was a pretty good looking dude and had some game.

I would get some girls and even without social media (way before), everyone always found out who went home with who,etc.

I'd have guys in the dorm come up to me and say, you were with , so and so? They'd be so mad at me, pissed, like you F 'in asshole.

It was bizarre to me, ya, I had fun with her, but i'm not interested in her. If you want to hit her up, go for it man.

I totally didn't get them, they were angry bitches at me for having fun with a girl that they wouldn't talk to. Most of the guys to be honest, weren't that good looking. They didn't lift, weren't in top shape.

Don't get mad. If you want girls to lust after you, learn and adapt to what they are attracted to.

quickly read below and you are getting some good advice.

I'm going to assume and reflect on this. I'm going to assume you give off desperation, or that you have this angry attitude that you give off.

Look, girls , especially young girls, want fun. they want to be around hot guys, but guys that have game, they are fun to be around,etc.

Are you giving those vibes off?

when you talk to girls are you smiling at all? ya, seriously, think about it. Do you come off as a angry bitch?

so, you need to have some fun, enjoy it, and also have a DNGAF attitude with results.

my best results back in those days was when I was having a good time, socializing with guys/girls would talk to girls and really DNGAF on results. They'd actually come up to me and hit on me.

You really need to step back and assess this. why am I not getting girls. You have to be honest with yourself, no one else will be.

Dude it's fine. Men peak later in life. We're all running different races at different speeds, in different lanes.

You have to attach to your "mission/purpose" and then make that the focal point of your life. That way girls simp for you.

Spend your time focusing on improving your body, your confidence, and your "masculinity". Complaining is a useless waste of time man. You're a man, find a solution. I just gave it to you here.

Threesomes aren't even that great tbh. Hot girls simping for you is where it's at.

It seems that you are only emotionally attached to the game, and not the journey. Angry? Find a way to have peace. Not getting a good reaction? Learn to enjoy everyone else's company. Men, women, children. Just find a way to love conversations and love life. You will attract the same. And... it takes a while.
Robert Glover is a positive example..

How the fuck can I stop thinking like this?

Women don't want to fuck you because you're obviously like this and probably low SMV, no game

If you want to stop feeling like this become fuckable. That's entirely within your control. Stop bitching and start grinding. Your problem isn't lack of women, your problem is being an undesirable bitch, fix that first.

I can't take it anymore. Why does everyone else get to fuck and I'm supposed to just "keep grinding"?? I'm going to graduate as a kissless virgin and it's fucking with my head, college was supposed to be the easiest time of my life to get laid. Wtf do those guys have that I don't? I put the work in too so why haven't I been able to fuck?

Maybe fuck a hot ass hooker for your first time and then you won't be as thirsty to to have sex. Gotta get that virgin stank off first cause girls can definitely pick up if u ain't fucked before.

Also redpillers tend to gaslight a bit when it comes to smv, fact is most of the dudes you describe are either good looking Chads or just have a normie mindset to sexual relationships. Maybe try to join a frat since that's pretty much guaranteed way to fuck bitches.

Yeah dude, you just need a win to ease you up. Keep in mind lots of us started learning game exactly because we were late bloomers and did not have what you describe others having. While it looks like everyone at college has that life of unlimited sex, the truth is that very, very few do, percentage wise.

Let these facts chill you out for a second. It's okay and natural to be frustrated. But there's no reason to be angry. The dam will break brother, it's just a matter of time.

In the short term, your issue is that this feeling of beta frustration you have is one of the things women dislike the most in men. They find it uncomfortable, unsettling, very unattractive.

As redhawkes put it, you're an AFC right now, average frustrated chump. Your game is lacking. You care too much.

Women are attracted to mystery, uncertainty, confidence, playful arrogance and indifference. That is not you right now, but it can be.

I have a jealousy problem. I can't stop feeling jealous towards guys who fuck and have fwbs. I have this seething anger, it makes me so pissed that some guys can get sex so casually. I'm jealous of the guys that get a bunch of results through online dating while I get ghosted by every single girl I message.

Wrong approach.

You want to be like them, so start admiring them and learning from them. They got what you want....... don't hate the player, learn to play well.

How the fuck can I stop thinking like this?

Be more attractive

Don't get bitter, get better. Jealousy is bitch trait. You're now in the AFC stage, don't make it permanent.

All of the above is your fault. No one owes you shit. You're where you are cos of your decisions, you need to change what doesn't work. No, being nice guy and simp won't get your dick wet. Complimenting hoes or becoming an emotional tampon also doesn't work.

https://archive.ph/7G5t9

Read and reflect. If this doesn't work, nothing will cos you have deeper issues.

Don't tell me you're the needy bitch from yesterday, if so, fuck off.

Even reading overly descriptive FR's on here makes me seethe. I can't even ease my sexual frustrations by watching porn since I get pissed off that it isn't me fucking them instead.

Basically you need to get laid. I think taking the success of others as motivation is a good start. Look very critically at yourself and try to see what you don't have or do that others do and see if you can improve. What can you fix?

Do some exercise or sport. It helps (slightly) to take your mind off sex and more importantly, it makes you happier and happy is attractive, so is fit and healthy.

Talk to women, get used to their physicality. It makes it easier and banging girls always starts with talking to them first. Just practise talking to women, not with a view to sex or even flirting but with a view to learning to talk to women and make them feel good. So talk to ugly ones and old ones too.

A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking its all about flirting and game. These things will help and are expected in some small part by most women but they are very unlikely to work unless she already sees you as good enough. Guys who are attractive, successful and make her feel good to be with are always good enough. You can work on making her feel good to be with you. Just ask yourself "what can I say that makes this woman feel good" and then practise this till it becomes natural.