just feels like a sad scene

It doesn’t just feel like a sad scene - it is a sad scene. Either decide that you’re okay with being a bad person, or don’t plate single mothers.

Single moms are really only good for fucking, and that's only until they try to get you to commit

I stopped reading after the overthinking

I got involved with 3 single mothers, which was definitely the lesser portion of my lays

Girls listed out of order for when I met them because of how i wanted to list them

Girl 2: had full custody of her son. Didn't disclose it at all on Hinge, didn't list it. Didn't mention it until we had a time and place already set up and definitely didn't disclose the full custody till after I kissed her. She invited me over for date 2 to "make her sore". Her kid gets in trouble at after school and has to come home hours early. Her male roommate that normally would be willing to watch him was being a bitch and wouldn't while I was over so i escalated in her room while he was asleep down the hall. She wouldn't lock the door so that was awkward. Then she tried to commitment trap me while she was about to cum from my fingers and then said we should stop. She wanted to fuck so bad but her desire to trap me was too powerful. Directly asked me to commit days later, I said no, and she invited me over one more time when he wasn't home and it didn't go anywhere

Full custody verdict: FUCK no

Girl 1: had 50/50 custody Monday-Wednesday and every other Sunday/holiday

Reliably fucked her once a week and spent some time with her at the venue i met her at on the other two nights she was out. Good lay, mostly treated me right until she lied about other dick. Hard nexted her.

As for logistics 50/50 custody was just fine, she was just too much of a club slut in my face and i didn't appreciate the lying even though I gave her a free pass to be a traditional plate so long as she was honest about it. Point is, 50/50 custody is completey reasonable for FWB/plate

Verdict 50/50: Just fine, but vet out trash women

Girl 3: met at venue. Had 80/20 custody. Gave son back to her deadbeat high school sweetheart every other weekend and had 50/50 custody over the summer.

She probably treated me better, no, she DID treat me better than any other woman I've ever had any form of a relationship with. We were FWB. She actually gave me some hope that good women are out there. She got knocked up because she had low self esteem and strict af parents and was never liked in high school so she let a fuckboi hit it after getting him to commit.

Other than THAT fuck up she was an incredibly hard working woman, submissive and feminine. Told her I didn't want a family and we still saw each other for 4 months, even when she was initially only seeing me every other week. She also lived in a other city. We probably saw eachother something like 20 times in four months. Fucked a ton and she treated me like a king, never asked me to support her or anything

She finally broke it off with me when her son was starting school on the fall again and she couldn't stomach doing a casual relationship anymore. She just didn't want to feel like someone's hoe. It was the most drama-free and cordial breaking off of something I've ever had. Zero resentment or negative feelings, granted i actually was kind of sad to lose the best treatment id ever had ever

Verdict on 80/20 custody: was still doable with genuine desire for me

50/50 custody, same verdict as before

I never met girl 1 or 3's kids ever. They didn't want me to meet them and that was perfect. They never asked me to support them or commit. They liked sex too.

I don't think it was all that worth plating the hoe to be honest because she was a hoe. The 3rd girl I actually feel genuinely lucky to have gotten involved with because it gave me optimism as a Red Pilled man that decent woman actually fucking exist. She actually wasn't a whore and if not for the kid she'd be an extremely good wife to someone some day.

Stop overthinking it. Not every woman has their kid 24/7. Find that shit out. Most don't ask you for resources at all. None did for me. None really wanted me to meet their kid, even the one who did have me meet him. Only 1 wanted commitment, the others were fine just having me drill them till their pussies wore out from getting fucked on repeat.

Stop overthinking this shit. Enjoy what you want to enjoy and wear a condom because they already have proven they have a bad track record with not getting pregnant

Single moms are great for sex. I lost my virginity to a single mom at a party. I had casual flings with other single moms.

They are not commitment-worthy.

But they like sex, just like any other woman.

As long as you guard your feelings, wallet, and commitment, there's no reason not to scratch each other's itch. Just be careful, and watch out for when they start trying to get you to commit (if they try).

Unless the kid is actively attached to his father, it shouldn't be much of a big deal. This is weird but little boys don't mind pimping their mothers out, as long they benefit in some way, and/or they like you. The only thing that may hinder your acts of passion is having to wait for the kid to go to bed, especially if he/she is has no siblings that can keep him busy. You will also have to monitor her moaning (I suggest that you play some music to filter the moans) if the lady only has one child. Please note that you will have to Play daddy and/or may end up as a god father if you aren't careful how you play it, so improve any characteristics that will make you a stronger leader, then lead by example.

It is better to look through a store window at young, unmarried woman than to be fucking a single mom.

There are higher purposes than getting yourself off.

Well you gotta make up your mind while finding out what itll be like going out with a single mom.

If she doesn't want you to meet her kids then it is kind of a green flag, she won't let her kids meet just any random guy and she'll set up the logistics for fucking at her place easier for you. If on the other hand she doesn't mind letting the kid play around the house while shes getting railed in the bedroom then that is kinda cringey and not what you're looking for.

Vet her and ask her questions based on that one criteria of never meeting the kid

There is nothing wrong with smashing single moms, in fact, I would say there is everything right with it. It's a less complicated, more straightforward deal - she wants to smash, you want to smash - get it on.

You are overthinking. I have had a few FWB things with single moms and honestly, some of the best, most honest, least complicated interactions you can have.

things I love about plating single moms;

• They are very busy, so when they make a booking, they really don't tend to flake.
• they are more grateful for it
• If they have young kids, they are very tied to their house. I had a single mom plate for about 3 years, and I'd just text her at short notice and ask her if I could come over. She'd always say yes (because she was always in) and I'd just drop by, watch some tv with her, spend a little time cuddling, she'd go upstairs to make sure the kids were fast asleep, then bang her on the living room floor, and then watch some more tv, then leave. Honestly, I have great memories of that. No dates, no dinners, no fancy places, no drama, no expenses whatsoever - just an honest relationship of sex.

there is nothing 'gross' or 'weird' about banging a single mom while the kids are asleep upstairs. If you can't have sex in a house where there are kids, then you can't get married.