I’m trying to gather up the odds of me actually having sex before March comes. I legit don’t think it’s going to happen. After having no interactions with women this week, no matches on OLD, and no messages on insta from any hoes, I’m realizing that the answer is “I’m not”. I’m debating just saving my money for an apartment when i get out of college and a week vacation to Tijuana. Has anyone gone to Tijuana for the prostitutes? Does anyone have real logistics for how much it might cost and how likely it is I get killed by the cartel?
I’m fucking up right now because I’m losing my mind thinking about sex and blowjobs and It’d be more settling if I had a backup plan that isn’t “use firearm to extort sex from female”.
Please let me know, thanks
financehardo420 2y ago
Bro I swear it’s like we all waste our times giving you advice. You read what we say and proceed to ignore every aspect of it.
In your case my guy you need to absolutely take a step the fuck back from women/sex and work on yourself. You clearly have mad fuckin issues to deal with.
You’re trying to reap the rewards without putting in the work that every guy here that gets laid has. There’s no skipping steps here. Work on yourself; the bitches will come after that. They’re a byproduct of the grind.
PaulBreddit1 2y ago
How do I work on myself? Can you please give me a detailed response ? I get rejected all the time. I want to change this.
financehardo420 2y ago
Read sidebar it’s all there really.
But brief summary: focus on improving the things that are in your control.
1) physique (aka muscles, abs, etc). This is achieved with consistency in the gym and consistency with a strict diet.
2) finances/following your purpose. Money comes in as you excel in whatever field you work in. Focus on becoming great; make that a priority and money will follow. Save and invest responsibly and enjoy the freedoms that come w wealth.
3) have a good social circle w like minded bros.
Work on these three things and you’ll eventually stop getting rejected… excel in these 3 things and you’ll eventually pull mad bitches.
Simple.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Jesus fucking scarcity mentality
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
He needs the sidebar so that he can lift more plates, where the fuck is it already?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Dude I have no idea. I asked this a while ago and I still have yet to find it.
OPStolen 2y ago
BROOO NOBODY IS HELPING ME. I remember I used to post on AskTRP back on reddit and dudes would be telling me step-by-step how to game bitches. I’ve been getting nothing but “get therapy”, “forget her”, “get your money up”, “get your education up”, “get fit”.
At this point my dude, I can see with my magic ball Ima catch my ex out in public next month with her new fuck toy and I ain’t gonna have a bitch on my arm, a new car, new drip, nothing. Ima look like a cuck, a bitch, a wimp, a fool, a degenerate. Everytime I leave I’m risking getting caught by one of her friends or her herself with no new bitch on my arm. I’m going to look stupid bro, I just want to get a bitch. Ya’ll want me to max out the shit a bitch can’t see. Ain’t no point in getting caught by her in public with a new ride, new clothes, and no bitch on my arm. I need the bitch just in case, a “ha, I got to fuck a new hoe just as easy as you” punch to the gut.
I got her entire friends list in my DMs calling me a cuck and saying i’m a friendless loser who can’t replace her. I want a new hoe
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
No bitch. Nobody is telling you easy solutions that you want to hear.
A bunch of normies who think they know how this works because they touched their first pussy aren't the guys you should be listening to.
Because you need it.
Because your ex living rent-free in your head is not only embarrassing, it's self-destructive
Yes, because money and resources are a key part of being able to maximize your attractiveness
Because that helps you get money.
If I have to even explain why this is important then you're beyond saving.
I see my exes all the time, and none of these thoughts enter my head because I'm over my exes. Why the fuck do you give a shit what someone who isn't in your life thinks of you?
It's fucking pathetic.
You think women can't see wealth? You think they can't see muscles? No bitch. You just want shortcuts and easy solutions.
I've got bad news for you - there are no easy solutions to this. You do the work or you lose. That's it.
Moreover, even if you did all these things, you're still fucked because you're doing them for her and not yourself. Even if you got "a new bitch" (and thinking like this is probably part of the reason it won't happen) you wouldn't be content because you'd be doing it thinking about your ex.
Fucking pathetic.
What in the fresh Elliot Rodger is this shit? WHY ARE YOU EVEN TALKING TO THEM?
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Why the FUCK do you care what your ex or any of her friends think?
If they're harassing you (which if they're DMing you like that, it's harassment), then fucking block them.
Everything I've read from you in this entire thread is bitch repellent, maximum grade. Women operate off of emotion, and guys with your mentality will feel "off" to them, and they will stay away.
Fucking calm the fuck down, read the sidebar (I don't care if you claim you did already - fucking read it again and process it).
Read some Roissy/Heartiste. Read some Rollo.
Calm down. Breathe. Stop worrying about what a bunch of people who shouldn't be in your life think.
Make progress and be patient.
If your goal is to fuck a chick who wants to fuck you, you are not in the right headspace right now at all.
JamesSkepp Moderator 2y ago
AskTRP was axed a few years back, which means you had few years (plus time before) to learn the basics of the game. We're all for helping, but ultimately its your job to do the approaches, it's your job to make the moves. You clearly haven't done ANY b/c even an average guy will literally "get lucky" if approaches systematically.
Long story short, it's your fault you haven't done anything to grow as a man.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
I always love the "I used to ... r/RedPillSubs" rebuttal comments from users
You went X many years since RP doing what??
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
The reason no one wants to help you is you are taking a normal question "how do I get laid?" and adding an utterly ridiculous layer of complexity to it that no one wants to help with.
How do I get laid by X day is an inherently bad question. How on earth are we supposed to tell you how to get laid by a certain time point? The answer wouldn't even be any different from "how do I get laid"
The extra flair of time point and being so ego-dependent on if your ex doesn't see you with something is just inherently putting her on a massive pedestal and not even wanting a girl for you but for an ex in a display of egotistical aneurysm
You have worse problems in mindset than poorly understanding game, and those same problems can be fixed with understanding red pill
Bad questions get low effort or no answer at all from people
OPStolen 2y ago
well i don’t care now, i just had a mental breakdown over some taco bell. I’m going to harass women in public until I get laid. I forget what ya’ll called that mess when someone who’s autistic or doesn’t have social skills gets laid because they don’t care about what they say. I’m pulling that. I’m an hour away from work, I’m asking every bitch I see “damn, you’re fine. You doing something later?” until I get kicked out of every store in Ocean City. I’m ready to run the numbers at this point. i don’t give a fuck about women. Women are the shittiest, most pathetic, worth nothing creatures in existence. But because of fucking society, a man isn’t shit unless he’s scoring. I could have a million dollar mansion, a maserati, $5k worth of clothes on my body, but If I got no bitch on my arm, I might as well be a 6th grader with nothing.
I’m harassing women until I get laid. I don’t care anymore, women aren’t shit, their families aren’t shit, I am better than any man they’ve slept with, I’m better than any man in the state of Maryland. I am Him.
I’m going to harass these hoes until I get laid. Wait for my field report, I’m not posting again on this site until I’ve had a bitch in my bed.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
"I'm going to harass women until I get laid"
"I'm not posting on this site until I've had a bitch in my bed"
So I guess we will never hear from you again.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
This wall of self-immolation is why no one wants to help you dude. I'm glad i didn't spend time seriously answering your post initially, my gut was right
JamesSkepp Moderator 2y ago
You never cared to learn game anyway. You had years to learn. if you did 1 approach a week for 2 years you would have had 100 appoaches in 2 years. Guys who want to learn game do 10 approaches per night, sometimes multiple night s a week, every week of the year, for multiple years.
That's not game, that's lashing out AT US (not even women) b/c you feel wronged. Nobody here is going to help you in "harassing women" b/c this is not game.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Since i already wrote these however and it won't waste time on my end:
The permanent game noob and how to fix it
And
Conversation Skills Guide
OPStolen 2y ago
i’ve read these before. Again, if a 6ft 4 dude can treat women like the trash they are and score weekly, then i can. i’m harassing women in public until i either get beat, kicked out of stores, or police are called. i will have a bitch by february. women don’t think, they don’t achieve, they don’t wake up with anything that isn’t from a man and they don’t sleep on anything that isn’t from a man. they are worthless degenerate creatures and i shouldn’t care what they’re doing when i approach one.
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
Are you 6'4"? No. So you can't do what he does.
We need to address a core issue that you have though - you don't see
womenbitches as people. You see them as agents to be acted on rather than having their own agency.Countless times we have told you that if you want women, you have to be attractive to women but you don't want to listen and do the work to get there.
I reason with the reasonable man. I plead with the merciful man. I mock the foolish man.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
You do you
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Also just because I'm certain you're going to do stupid shit, wear a condom if you do end up getting laid. You need to nut a certain amount of times after a vasectomy and wait a certain time period to be sterile
Wear a condom if you get lucky until your sperm results say zero
Even then... Wear one so you don't get an STD as easily
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Don't worry @Vermillion-Rx, he will never use those out of date condoms he bought all those years ago.
If he legit think that harassing women (sorry, 'bitches') until the police come is the way forward, then the only use for those condoms will be for him to ask his cellmate very nicely to put one on as he gets bent over in county.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Genuinely curious how his field report will turn out. Maybe they'll let him log in from county
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
I think you have to tell the warden that you need to email your lawyer about your appeal or something like that.
MrSupreme 2y ago
I have no idea about the Tijuana scene, most Mexicans I've seen aren't all that cute so I wouldn't be surprised if the prostitutes there aren't hot. Take a trip to Vegas maybe
ogrilla99 2y ago
Sigh. I see I wasted my time in giving you a serious response in your last post.
Nobody is helping you? No, you just don't want to hear the answers. You're like a crack addict asking about how to buy a new crack pipe and everyone is telling you the first step is to get off the crack, and you keep replying, no no no I just need to get a new crack pipe and everything will be fine.
You have put this giga hoe (your words) on such a high pedestal, no amount of PUA skillset is going to unfuck your mind, which is the most urgent thing you need to do. You're making her friends the judge of your social standing? Here's a PUA technique I'll clue you in on. NEXT. That includes blocking her and her friends. Only you can let them live in your head rent free and by the looks of it, you've constructed a palace for them.
Don't think that women won't be able to see your desperation and fucked up attitude from a mile away. While there's no such thing as women's intuition, it doesn't take much social acuity to know something ain't right when you approach with your current mindset.
Let me ask you just one question: you've literally convinced yourself that you're willing to go to jail just to have a woman on your arm to show up... not other guys, not your low value ex, but checks notes, your low value ex's low value friends. And you think the biggest thing wrong in this bitch line of thinking is a lack of PUA polish?
Whatever dude. Let us know how it works out. Hopefully we won't find out by reading about a SoCal incel raping a woman at gunpoint or else you just might singlehandedly set back the incel/nice guy community by decades.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
We've all done it man
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Why March? Why any arbitrary deadline? It'll happen when you're attractive enough.
Your mentality is fucked up. Work on that first.
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
honestly, if you can afford a trip to tijuana you may also afford a trip to columbia - now that's the place to be for sex tourism this side of the planet
Acela_nextel 2y ago
Since the the RichCopers/“just lift bros” here won’t help you out, r/TJredlightdistrict sub Reddit will probably have good advice for you. Id say the biggest issue you have to worry about is getting stopped by the cartel/corrupt Mexican police.
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
The help he needs isn't how to get fucked in a sleazy border town with legalized prostitution.
A chimp with a fistful of cash can manage that.
The help he needs is rooted in his fixation on his ex and his desperation to get another woman to placate his ego and potentially make her jealous.
Acela_nextel 2y ago
My guy you can fuck waaay badder bitches if you pay em than lowering your standards if you don’t have the looks to pull 8-10s for free.
Pussy is pussy at the end of the day
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
Paying for pussy isn't a solution to the problem. His issue is internal. Paying for ass only lets him get easy dopamine and ignore his issues.
Edit: btw, I haven't forgotten that you called me an Uncle Tom and didn't address it when I called you out.