Last time we hung out I was constantly shit tested about us just being friends. I still escalated while listening to her, and we were connecting well. Making out with her topless was the furthest I went. She offered me to spend the night last time which I declined due to a surgery I had in the morning.
To add, I think we've caught feelings for each other. She may just have the tingles, but it could be more.
This time is different, we're gonna have pizza then watch a movie. I'm thinking saving the kissing for when I'm escalating. I could be overthinking this, but I know pulling and connecting in the process should be a priority. I feel like kissing her when you first walk in is a bit much, unless that's what she wants.
coolsocks00 1 3mo ago
I started writing an elaborate response here, but wont be posting it as i'd just be enabling the part of you that's scared of rejection.
What i'll say is:
Your mentality is an issue. You're putting women on a pedestal and not acting as your own mental point of origin. Fixing this is a must for long term success, and usually short term also.
financehardo420 3mo ago
Building on this:
you’ve hung out with her once… haven’t even stuck your lil pee pee in her coochie on a recurrent basis… don’t know her character/personality/etc… don’t know her body count/sexual history…
but you think you’ve both “caught feelings for each other”….
I think all that’s really justifiable as a response to this post is “…” BUT:
I’ll throw you a bone bc I know you’ve been trying for so long. exactly as everyone else has had… stop overthinking. Overthinking is how you fumble. Just go with the flow; let it happen organically. You’ve laid the groundwork already just keep doing what you’re doing. Start smashing her and keep the willpower to only smash her once a week so you can focus on smashing other chicks to avoid the oneitis you’re already starting to develop
MrSupreme 3mo ago
Major overthinking. Kiss and make out for foreplay and if it's gonna be followed by some dickin or fingering.
oowiw 3mo ago
When you've made out before, you ought to kiss or feel her up on next greeting IMO, you don't have enough experience for that tension will-we wont-we game yet, you want to get a bit physical right away so there's no question where the evening is headed
Redpillpusher 3mo ago
You should read this post: https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/322057/the_permanent_game_noob_the_autistic_alpha_and_how_to_fix_it
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3mo ago
Ty for the shout-out
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3mo ago
Overthinking as fuck.
Just make a move dude on any positive note, you already made one. Stop overthinking
And same as any girl: fun carefree vibe with some sexual tension. Stop overthinking. That's it.