So basically title
Quick context:
Met and slept with her on New year's. Kept contect with a couple of messages and cut the small talk to ask her out.
She replies with "to do what" and I basically tell her straight up: to have sex.
She replies with the above.
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
"meh you're mid
moorekom 2y ago
Not when you're here.
pofkaf 1 2y ago
"I missed that ass" works if you're in the right frame
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
Lmao
Her saying "do you miss me" is her looking for validation/reassurance that you aren't just using her for sex.
I'd just say a simple "yes" then "come over at x time"
My interpretation is she's had thoughts about getting used by you for sex and probably influenced by her peer group saying that shit to her. Don't overcompensate for it in any way, this is a good thing. Overcompensating = turn off/put into boyfriend category where she will try to withhold sex carrot on a stick for relationship. Which is stupid, but girls think emotionally.
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EurasianChad 1 2y ago
Now if she gives you any sort of BS I'd just ignore or say "ok".
No explanations, no rationalizations. She already fucked, you've got all the power here
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Here's What Worked For Me™:
Her: did you miss me?
Me: yeah, but I'll work on my aim.
Note to any spergs: this is to be said playfully, not threateningly!
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
cue cjtakk throwing up gangsigns in this girl's face with bobby shmurda playing in the background and a bunch of vine-swingers doing tribal dances
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Instructions unclear, have ordered the hi-power scope with red laser guidance, will be practicing more at the range.
No-Stress-Cat 1 2y ago
LMAO
cjtakk 2y ago
Thats a good one. Unfortunately doesn't quite work out in the same way in my native language :(
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SwarmShawarma 2y ago
Can mean several things, including her not knowing what to feel about it and dragging conversation aimlessly.
IF you'd oblige, you suck.
I like Eursian and Matty approach - but for the best choice you wanna feel the satiation.
If you texted a bit it might be to much already to even say 'Yes' as that might soften you too much - that would be better if the contact since sex was poor and she needed patting on the head - ignoring would work better when she tries to test your balls. Choose wisely.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Never directly answer with "sex" unless she's already cock hungry and it will make her want to come over more/faster
cjtakk 2y ago
That is very true in most cases. Here I wanted to avoid any unnecessary ideas of dates. I already hit and don't have much time on my side so I didn't really care much either.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
You probably know the situation better than anyone in this thread. You met and banged in one night, so she's probably a bit worried that you think she's a slut, so she might try some version of 'next day resistance'.
I would be angling to keep all convos with her short and spicy. If she says 'what do you want' make it sexual. Make sure that she knows what you are about - that you are chad, and you are playing a chad role, so that she doesn't try and pivot you towards beta stuff. If you continue to see her, she will probably try and pivot you into restaurants and you taking her out, playing provider games.........Dont. You have all the cards. if she says 'it would be nice to go to xyz restautrant' then you reply with 'That would be great, its been ages since a beautiful woman bought me dinner'. If she protests - just say - 'hey, I thought you were a modern woman, right?? I'm not some sexist pig that 'buys' women with dates, so that I can sleep with them'.
cjtakk 2y ago
Accurate reply. Yeah I do know the situation best and that was my whole point to avoid all kind of stupid dates as I don't have time for that and besides I hit already.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Bullshit response from her, ignore her for a few days.