Whats up,

I've been reading about pair bonding/ N count lately. I myself have slept with three different chicks in the month of November.. it would be a lie if I sat here and said I had multiple plates etc at this point in my life. I'm 28 years old at the moment, I would like to get multiple plates rolling this coming year as I believe im a fairly decent looking dude, I dress well (have been told that on multiple accounts) and am in decent shape ( lean build not overly muscular but defined.. I compete in muay thai as a hobby), and decent career. My whole thing is eventually I would like to meet a girl worth upgrading to LTR.. most of my sexual experience is all from ONS or an occasional fuckbuddy.

So the last three girls I have fucked have turned out like this.. Girl A - Bisexual, claims she is a relationship only type girl fucked her pretty much the entire month of November, lets me do whatever the fuck I want.. Spit in her mouth, cum in her mouth, sucks my dick, pin her against the wall, inflict some minor pain etc.. Girl B- Met her at the bar, had a ONS, she was on a road trip 4 hours away, she continued to text me met up with her the following weekend, fucked her again.. but she was more vanilla, after speaking with her she traveled the world a fair amount and claims she's used to casual but has tried to get me into a relationship within 2 dates... (WTF).. I cut things off with her.. Girl C- ..I met at a bar this past weekend, talk etc.. explains to me she a Nurse.. I go back to her place and fuck her but the sex is decent... My question is can you base an N count off the shit they let you do to them in bed?

My friend raised a valid point, some of these girls have been in relationships for years and during that time im sure they get trained up to do the shit they do.. for example Girl A in this Scenario, was with her ex bf for a year approximately a year and a half ago.. he broke up with her because she would go to the bars and get drunk and get sloppy. I guess when he broke up with her he went down the list of everything he hated about her and she took it rough.. however I know she went back at one point and fucked him a couple months ago.. so is this considered an Alpha widow?

I've read numerous post about N count on here but would like clarification for the day I ever decide I want to try a LTR and how to properly determine their N count.. I don't think I've ever asked any girls their N count since I was 15 in High school after my first lay.. I learned early on it does not help.. however a feeler for how to properly gauge N count while vetting would be helpful.. thanks guys in advance.