Whats up,
I've been reading about pair bonding/ N count lately. I myself have slept with three different chicks in the month of November.. it would be a lie if I sat here and said I had multiple plates etc at this point in my life. I'm 28 years old at the moment, I would like to get multiple plates rolling this coming year as I believe im a fairly decent looking dude, I dress well (have been told that on multiple accounts) and am in decent shape ( lean build not overly muscular but defined.. I compete in muay thai as a hobby), and decent career. My whole thing is eventually I would like to meet a girl worth upgrading to LTR.. most of my sexual experience is all from ONS or an occasional fuckbuddy.
So the last three girls I have fucked have turned out like this.. Girl A - Bisexual, claims she is a relationship only type girl fucked her pretty much the entire month of November, lets me do whatever the fuck I want.. Spit in her mouth, cum in her mouth, sucks my dick, pin her against the wall, inflict some minor pain etc.. Girl B- Met her at the bar, had a ONS, she was on a road trip 4 hours away, she continued to text me met up with her the following weekend, fucked her again.. but she was more vanilla, after speaking with her she traveled the world a fair amount and claims she's used to casual but has tried to get me into a relationship within 2 dates... (WTF).. I cut things off with her.. Girl C- ..I met at a bar this past weekend, talk etc.. explains to me she a Nurse.. I go back to her place and fuck her but the sex is decent... My question is can you base an N count off the shit they let you do to them in bed?
My friend raised a valid point, some of these girls have been in relationships for years and during that time im sure they get trained up to do the shit they do.. for example Girl A in this Scenario, was with her ex bf for a year approximately a year and a half ago.. he broke up with her because she would go to the bars and get drunk and get sloppy. I guess when he broke up with her he went down the list of everything he hated about her and she took it rough.. however I know she went back at one point and fucked him a couple months ago.. so is this considered an Alpha widow?
I've read numerous post about N count on here but would like clarification for the day I ever decide I want to try a LTR and how to properly determine their N count.. I don't think I've ever asked any girls their N count since I was 15 in High school after my first lay.. I learned early on it does not help.. however a feeler for how to properly gauge N count while vetting would be helpful.. thanks guys in advance.
Seagram7 1y ago
Censorship works and the other side is winning. Ten years ago, the website Return of Kings published an article called "24 signs she is a slut." A simple search should turn up that article...nope. All my searches turn up the rebuttal articles and the feminist outcries but not the actual article.
It took some serious digging but I found it.
https://tuthmosis2.rssing.com/chan-39988739/latest-article19.php
Tuthmosis’s Abridged List of Slut Tells
Has tattoos. This is especially the case if they’re visible, multiple, large, and elaborate. If they have sexual themes, you’re in like Flynn.
Piercings outside of the traditional earlobe placement. Sluttiness increases as you radiate from the lobe, to other parts of the ear, to the nose crumb, to the bull-ring. Other parts of the face—and erogenous zones—speak even louder.
Has “slut face.” You either recognize it or you don’t.
Cusses a lot. Especially if she uses the words “fuck,” “pussy,” or “cock” outside of the bedroom.
Not ticklish. I’ve noticed that girls who aren’t ticklish aren’t so because they’re used to being handled (by men). Almost every prude is super ticklish, while sluts are rarely so. Sluts may have a physical response to light touching, but it’s rarely a tickled sensation.
Broaches the topic of illegal drugs (even marijuana) without prompting. The more illegal, the sluttier.
Has big tits. They probably came in early, which translates into additional years of male attention.
Shows excessive skin for weather conditions. Exposes the midriff, lower back, or ass-piece from the bottom of her daisy-dukes even when it’s not super-hot.
Has extra body hair (arms, girl-sideburns, girl-mustache) and/or a low speaking voice. This, I’m told, is simple biology. More hair and low voice equals more testosterone. It’s an imperfect metric, though, because women of certain ethnicities are just more hirsute by default.
Associates with confirmed sluts. Her friends are often one of your best weathervanes. Birds of a feather, as they say.
Shows interests in girls, has “hooked up” with girls, or claims to be “bi-sexual.” Bi-sexuality has quickly become a stand-in for hyper-sexuality.
Is currently, or was at some point, in a sorority. Sororities are little more than pussy buffets for the campus fraternities.
Has traveled alone, or with only girls, to fuck-fest locations (e.g., Jamaica). This is often a tell-tale sign of a sex-on-vacation-doesn’t-count case.
Was a cheerleader in high school. Cheerleaders have, and exploit, access to the most desirable and horniest dudes at school.
Went, or goes, to a known party college (e.g., Arizona State, USC, UC Santa Barbara). Girls are copycats, and when all of her friends “are doing it” (whatever “it” is), they do too. (See No. 10.)
Lost her virginity on the younger side (15 and down). The earlier they start, the longer they tend to ride the carousel.
Likes tequila shots or party drugs (e.g., Extasy/MDMA). These are the drugs of choice for the promiscuous.
Is “friends” with DJs, promoters, or other small-time pseudo-celebs. This is a world in which the gears are lubricated with pussy—even more directly than others.
Is an artist, or a wannabe “model” who has done “photo shoots.” Girls in the arts tend to have a loose attitude toward sex, especially if their “art” involves “expressing themselves” with their body.
Broaches the topic of sex first. This may seem like a no-brainer, but they often do so in subtle ways that can seem plausibly deniable. They never are.
Has a bad relationship with her father and/or has divorced parents. “Daddy issues” are classic, but accurate predictors of her relationship to men and sex.
Describes herself as a feminist or with any of its jargon (“pansexual,” “demi-sexual,” “cis-gendered”). You may not be able to stand a feminist long enough to bang her yourself but, in trying to prove she can do everything a man can do, she likely fucks with impunity.
Has an even, nice tan that she maintains. Girls with even, perfect tans spend a lot of time semi-naked, often in semi-public.
Whether you use them to get laid more reliably, or to avoid wifeing up the town bike, these cues should be on every man’s slut radar. Sure, there are exceptions to all of them. You could meet a nun with a tattoo, or a ticklish slut, but these are—especially the more of them that are evident—some of most accurate predictors of sluttiness you’ll encounter.
NineFive17 1y ago
I actually remember seeing this article years ago! I appreciate your time for reposting this man.
Can you elaborate on “ticklish” ive been seeing this term recently but I really do not know what it means.. if you can put it in simpler terms and how I can spot it.
Seagram7 1y ago
Here is the sequel to his first post
https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/321890/26_more_signs_she_s_a_slut
NineFive17 1y ago
Thanks again brother!
If not too much trouble can you elaborate on the “ticklish” term. I apologize
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Girl game is always to tell a guy they're fucking that they're a good girl, cus deep down no matter what they say, they know that guys would prefer a girl w low body count for LTR.
Source: I'm the guy that's banging them
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Don't be the retard that settles for bitches with high body count.
The less emotionally attached you are, the better. Emotions make people do dumb shit.
Save it for a good girl virgin if you ever find one.
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EurasianChad 1 1y ago
I know a girl who's a gigaslut who's dad is extremely alpha. Tried to confront me in his own house after he saw me with his daughter, chilling in his couch, wearing his shirt.
I had to make an excuse to smoke a ciggy so I wouldn't get shot, snuck back in and fucked.
Its not a general rule but it's pretty accurate most of the time
SwarmShawarma 1y ago
either you making it sound cool or he seemed to might have poor impulse control? like his daughter?
Yeah yeah we could be nit-picking all night this way, just my 3c
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Lol he obviously didn't pull a gun on me, but I'm saying it could've escalated to that
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Overkill_Engine 3 1y ago
And her mom. If her mom has some slutty skeletons in the closet and the daughter's opinion of such is anything other than negative....don't be surprised when the apple does not fall far from the tree.
So yeah, you have to vet her family and her relationship in context to that as well as the woman herself and her past behaviors. And you've got to do all this monitoring for red flags passively/covertly like a nuclear sub in enemy waters.
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EurasianChad 1 1y ago
No clue, this bitch literally threw herself at me.
Was never a long term prospect so doing all that is too much work
Just here to fuck bro
Blingo123 1y ago
High confidentce, not ticklish and if she's older that 24.
NineFive17 1y ago
What do you mean “High Confidence” as in she is high confidence while having sex? Ticklish? under 24 is prime ?
Blingo123 1y ago
No not while having sex just in general and every day stuff. Think about it Confidence is a masculine trait that she's more than likely picked up by being around loads of high confidence dudes. If she's not ticklish then she's probably been manhandled by loads of dudes roosh V said it on his website. These are all generalities, just because shes high confidence doesn't mean she's a slut but theres a higher chance.
SwarmShawarma 1y ago
and in addition to that tattoo of dick along her nose line
Arcturus 1y ago
Unless you're still in middle school, it's high and climbing. The smart ones know that's not great for their prospects and lie about it. The dumber ones and the ones that have bought into the whole sex positive thing might tell you the truth. Just assume high mileage and structure your expectations and life accordingly.
NineFive17 1y ago
So essentially I should never expect to be in an LTR.. and kids are out of the picture?
Arcturus 1y ago
What I would take away from my first comment is that if you truly want an LTR or kids, you need to factor in reality. You can have an ltr but just realize she's not going to invest as much of herself as if she would have had you taken her virginity. Not the end of the world, you can still enjoy each other's company, just don't be a jackass and assume she'll be with you through thick and thin and build your identity around your relationship as some permanent thing. Be the center of your own life and work on making it good, and while she's willing to put in the effort she gets to enjoy being along for the ride. Maybe she gets bored, some guy who's more alpha seduces her away, maybe she gains 50 lbs and starts acting like a bitch. Whatever, you've got your life together, you can attract someone else easily, it was nice while it lasted.
Kids are trickier. You are giving an irrevocable commitment to whoever you impregnate. If you go that route, vet heavily. I would also do some serious research ahead of time, to the point of consulting with lawyers who deal with child support and.custody, on how to structure your life so that if she chooses to eject you are in a solid position to keep your kids and your money. I personally decided not to have kids for reasons particular to my own life and beliefs. That's every man's call to make himself, if you do, just be smart and give them your best.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
In general, once you learn to read the signs, a slutty women will always tell on themselves, usually within minutes of opening her mouth. You have to realise, that most women are PROUD of how slutty they are. They think that having a high body count 'proves' that they are attractive and also modern and feminist.
You can always tell.
NineFive17 1y ago
I kid you not, some girls I have slept with have flexed their body count to me unprovoked. It was very bizarre..
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
Basically, they all do. They do it in all kinds of ways. They just can't wait to tell you all about it.
Sluts basically think its some sort of achievement to be a slut.
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
To my mind, a woman that gets drunk, even occasionally, is a waste of time.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
The messy room/house is almost always a sign. It's like they are constantly coping with the depression of pump and dump or going out with guys and getting drunk so they never have cleaning on their to do list
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
the messy room / house is a dead give away. It has many components.
Honestly, I think a messy / dirty room / apartment is the biggest red flag of them all. You go to an adult womans apartment and its a dumpster, this is absolute proof that you are dealing with a literal child.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
This without fail
Every time I have seen a messy woman's house OR EVEN CAR! they are always fucked up in the head
Women will do anything BUT the required work to get what they want in life
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
Why would they do the required work when men will do it for them? Are you nuts?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Unless men are going to do things like make them lose weight or dress then then yes