This coworker is a cute stoner chick. At work I don't flirt with the girls because most of them are 4s. A guy coworker told me they all think I'm flirting with them which is laughable lol. I make them laugh and the convo's a vibe, but there's no flirting.
Anyways I saw cute coworker girl at school today and called her over to talk. She asked if I'd quit, and explained that it wasn't because she missed me or was thinking of me (can't remember which). So I teased her for missing me saying she'd been "journaling about where I could've gone.
Doubled down on the tease and eventually convo went to me being a douchebag. She doesn't know any other way to flirt or tease imo. I just doubled down "yeah, I'm a doughebag. I'm also an asshole, I mean my name's N____ after all!"
her: yeah! and I know this other guy named N_____ but he gets the pass.
More talk about me being an asshole, to which I did the easiest agree and amplify ever. A couple of girls have used that on me lately.
I tried to to make the convo a little more man to woman or something. I asked about her hair and think I said it suits her. Then I sent her on her way.
Is gaming her to close for a date a good idea tomorrow?
kalyl 1y ago
Consider the right time and setting for asking https://amongusio.io her out. It might be best to do this in a more relaxed, private environment rather than in a busy workplace. Make sure she feels comfortable and not pressured.
drkb 1y ago
My golden rule for workplace dating/flirting: either ask the woman out within 5min of meeting her or remaon forever silent. If they reject you, say 'fair enough' and make it clear youll never bring it up again, and then dont.
If you wait too long you risk creeping them out/reprecussions ("oh so he was just nice to me because he wanted to get into my pants").
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Serious question, have you even read the Sidebar yet?
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I'm trying not to treat you differently than other users just because you post a lot.
I'm seriously close to giving the "didn't read the Sidebar" flair given a lot of the long overdue need to understand what you've been posting about for a long time
Yes... Most of the things posted about would be self explanatory if you both read and understood it
The understand it being as important as reading it
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Yup, I just gotta give the warning man
"Should I shit where I eat?" Is not a 200th post kind of question you should be asking
This is basically red pill 101, not something you should be finding out a year later
I'm not proud of flairing you if need be but gotta treat everyone the same here regardless of posting intent or history with engaging with the community
"askhole flairs"
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Right. But that's also covered to death in post after post by other users asking the same question. It's also covered in the sidebar, briffault's Law, lightswitch effect, etc.
When you two finally split up etc all these basic RP facts are going to bite you in the ass. Covered already. Doesn't matter how unique your situation is. If you care about your job you should know what will happen from sidebar. If you don't give a shit about your job and are okay with risking getting fired and or false sexual harassment allegations later on after she finds out you went on a date with another girl or had awkward sex then ask her out.
I'm not necessarily proud of it but it's also to get you to snap out of a cycle of having low expectations of yourself, you need to do the work of being RP aware without us feeding it
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
Of course they are; fugly girls will cling to any chance to protect their ego. You have to make their allegations seem absolutely bizarre; best way is to hang out with girls that are way beyond those hyenas - like you’re attempting to right now. Also, respect to the male coworker for keeping you up to date.
If it’s still that aquarium job or something similar (i.e. not a career), then absolutely go for it.
Ps: like vermillion said, do it - if you’re absolutely at peace with the fact that you’ll easily lose this job if she doesn’t buy what you’re selling
Gilles 1y ago
Yes. You should do it. It's not recommended, but you should find out for yourself why it is a bad idea.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
Seriously dude, wtf? Your parents named you "nigger"? wtf. That's racist as fuck.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
They might have gone with "soft a". Unclear due to OP's censorship of his name
Still fucked up that his parents would name him that
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Only if you don't value your job.