Say you matched with a 33 year old (I'm 25) nurse who has a kid. Her profile says she is a nurse, christian, wants more kids, values ambition, she's an entrepreneur, loves the beach, etc. My main profile pic is a shirtless pic of me wearing a chain so she should have a good idea of why I am on the app. With younger girls I would just invite them to come hang out/chill. It's bumble so she will have to message me first something like "Hey" "Hey, how are you" Is starting off with something like "I'm good, how are you" She says whatever. Then "We need something exciting in your week, how about drinks your place 10 tonight" I live with parents so limited options. Should I get more sexual than that on the app or is that about right? Good to invite myself straight to her place since I can't host easily?
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coolsocks00 1 2y ago
Bang
Disregard. This is aimed towards the beta bloops she wants to LTR.
Your example is overly dry, but you got the right idea. In this scenario she knows what's up and is just looking for sex. Her hind brain knows this, but most women still prefer the illusion of a potential for something more serious. So i wouldnt go too sexual on the app, leave that for when you meet.
Keep in mind that unless she's a turbo slut with no care in the world, she might be hesitant to invite you straight over if her kids are there asleep.
I wouldnt view that as a sign of disinterest in this case.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Oh she values ambition alright, in particular the ambition of young men to finance her debt burden.
Bozza 2 2y ago
Have a look at the template in my field report I posted a little while ago. My example in that post is a little dry but it works, you can try and spice it up a little - but don't get too sexual, it back fires in my experieince.
MILFs are usually more than happy for you to come straight over for wine. But sometimes logistics can be a hassle because of the kids - might take a bit of back and forth to find an evening that works for her.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
She's a MILF on a hookup app.
You go for the hookup.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Let me break it down for you:
nurse=hoe, christian=born again virgin, wants more kids=baby trap, values ambition=must be rich, she's an entrepreneur=onlyfans, loves the beach=you have to buy her expensive holidays.
I wouldn't invest anything into her other than just going to her place and fucking.
unplugged69 2y ago
I would steer clear my man, a lot of guys here will tell you all about how they game and fuck post wall women. The truth is that you have nothing to gain, you can fuck hotter younger women with a lot less risk.
You see at this age women get DESPERATE, and UNPREDICTABLE especially if they already have kids and have been alpha widowed by chad. You need to steer clear unless you enjoy being baby trapped, accused of rape, emotionally manipulated, love bombed or who fucking knows what else. These post wall bitches in their 30s with kids are a massive fucking warning sign, DANGER DO NOT APPROACH!
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Single mum of 33 messaging a 25 year old on a hook up app? Could be one of two things;
She's dtf and she wants you.
In a fit of desperation, she has widened her net and is now swiping on 25 year olds. She feels she could bag one of those, and turn them into a worker drone to finance her way out of the debt mountain she has created by having offspring - babysitters and day care is eating 50% of her disposable income, plus rent, plus a shopping habit, plus things that 'she just has to have'.
I would approach with extreme caution, if at all.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Oh she loves the beach does she? Well, blow me down with a feather. I've never heard of that one before. That's so niche. Everyone else hates the beach.
nicknack 2y ago
Op found himself a needle in a haystack. A mature, experienced woman whose kids are her world and loves the beach
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
I can hardly believe it. And she wants 'an ambitious' man. Damn it, all the other woman I know want a man that sits on the sofa all day playing video games.