Tell stories. Best stories?

Stories about other girls and sex.

Always steer the conversation towards *spicy topics (relationships, etc.).

Easy to set thw right frame and implant whatever you want in her mind. Escalate from there.

Ok..... conversational skills I've learned.

Basic

Talk clearly and fairly slowly.

TALK LOUDLY ENOUGH.

Keep every sentence simple. Build to more complicated stories and scenarios with simple sentences. Each sentence should say one thing only. This really helps when talking to strangers. Strangers cannot comprehend complicated sentences at the same time as trying to understand your accent plus intentions plus non-verbals, so keep it simple and take your time.

Story Telling

Practice story telling... if something happens to you and you want to retell it, make it into a little story. Every story has the same structure:

• Some sort of bait / introduction / appetiser. Enough to motivate the listener. "Hey, did I ever tell you guys about the time I was arrested?"

• Set the scene and provide context. "So you know when you're just walking down the street and in your own little bubble..... well it was a day just like that" or "Ok, so I'm out in a bar with Jim, James, Jimbo and Jimbob, they're all really great guys but the kind of guys that will always end the night in trouble".

• The bulk of the story, interesting events. Make sure to convey as much emotion and intrigue as possible. Make sure the audience knows the main characters, describe the events. 99% of the time you want to cover the story in chronological order. If people interrupt or ask questions you can answer them and weave their interests and comments into the narrative. If you can refer your story to anything they've said that really helps with their interest..... "right, and just like you were saying earlier about that bent cop, this guy was also....."

• Make sure it has a god damned interesting conclusion. Not exactly a punchline, but a satisfying conclusion, some way to wrap it up. This should be fairly positive... "and that's how I got away with it" or "and that's how I learned not to shoplift" and not "I have never recovered and my life is now a ball of sadness and despair". This is the point where you can break the chronological order if it helps to wrap things up nicely if there isn't an otherwise natural end.... "yeah, and right in the middle of it all, it turns out that my friend Jimbob is actually a transexual, which puts a whole different colour on the events of that night".

You can then optionally lead into another story ... "And so yeah, that was the first time I was arrested", but you need to make sure you are not falling into "dancing monkey" mode where you are their entertainer. The basic sketch here is that you are in control of the conversation, not them. Get them to talk at this point... listen to their sucky stories (and be positive about them), lead the conversation, don't be led.

DON'T ASK QUESTIONS

You don't want to ask questions. You want to talk in statements. "What do you do" / "Where are you from" is the fucking worst........ interview style question and answer is fucking awkward as hell.

At the very least if you want information you should phrase it as an order...... "Tell me what you do". With guys you can just ask questions, it's fine..... but with women it's best to make them feel compelled to answer you in some way...... "I bet you're a hairdresser".

When in doubt loop back and tease. Most women are used to having their ego's stroked, so when they hear you making fun of them in some odd way, such as their nationality, personality, physical feature, star sign, fill in the blank, this demonstrates your confidence.

The most successful strategy as others have said is to refer to things about them. Those egotistical animals. Just kidding, but that's a good example of a tease. Mention something specific to them. Try not to give complements of them, instead on what they wear or how they act, it makes the convo more interesting instead of bland.

It's not really so much about what you say, more so how you say it. Two people could spit the same "game" phrases and get polarizing results. Getting into a flow state is ultimately key, chatting with staff, friends, I sometimes even make up song lyrics to get the brain juices flowing as I walk from the car to a function. I also try to hit the gym prior; this boosts oxytocin and pheromones and whatnot.

I find that at the end of the day, it is about the presenter, not the presentation. I've tried countless lines and game techniques, but if you don't grab yourself by the balls and demonstrate competence none of this matters. Also, chose who you approach wisely, make sure there's reciprocity. Typically, this means ioi's like prolonged side eyes, touching hair, moving towards your vicinity etc. Never plant seeds in infertile ground.

People love talking about themselves. It works on both men and women. Let them do all the work.

Good topic, I'm curious to know other people's tricks. One thing that I recently started doing is asking the girl her worst experience instead of her best : "What's the worst place you've been to?" "What was your worst date like?" "Who do you hate the most?"

Sometimes the conversations I was having with some girls were too positive and it just comes across as bland at one point, it's a good way to add a little twist and shift emotions. And women love bitching about their life.

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Something I like to do is ask fucking weird, retarded shit that people don't expect.

• "Who's the tallest man you've ever seen?"
• "Have you ever eaten citrus ice cream?"
• "What’s the most ridiculous fact you know?"
• "What's the weirdest thing you've ever smelled?"
• "Do you believe in the power of a curse?"
• "If you were a teacher, what would you teach?"
• "Would you spend the night in a cemetery?"
• "What's the most overrated place you've ever been?"

Works on men and women. Always gets a laugh, and they will always answer.

And they're formulated in such a way that it gets them to open up about a memory, experience or their likes/dislikes.

The more ridiculous and outlandish the question, the better.

My go to question for breaking an awkward silence is:

"So... what's your opinion on the price of butter these days? It's absolutely criminal".

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