I made a post about this situation. https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/320255/female_friend_of_a_friend_ioi
Prepared for some more roasting. Anyway basically was confirmed at an outing on the weekend that i was right. Now i am currently at home, which has made sleeping with girls in general difficult and clunkier to suggest going back to theirs..
I dont want to act any differently to get this pussy and im not oneitis ( have several other options and plates) but i feel like i have let her chase me currently ( initiating most of the time etc).. way i see it i have two options, either invite her out one on one which may scare her ( did this a few weeks ago and she coincidentally had a migraine) as that makes it more datey vibes but also an expectancy, women dont like pressure and things should just happen.. inivte or be invited to a night out and let it happen naturally
no pressure.. the issue is she is now asking me things directly ( found out because a mutual female friend was basically confrming and pikcing my brain) which is messing things up in a way as i have to answer in some way
Bozza 2 2y ago
I've never had an issue with this before. It would be odd for her to turn this down especially considering she invited you to karaoke 1 on 1.
She seems high interest just go for it. It she blows you off then soft next until she chases you again.
There's no point playing games.
RiverChill41 2y ago
Maybe she had migraine, maybe she didn't, who cares. If you want to invite her out again just do it. It sounds like you have good judgement but you're over thinking it. It's been a month since your last post, shit or get off the pot.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
what things is she asking you ?
OPPTRP 2y ago
What is my definition of fun
What I’ve said etc
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Yeah, get her out on a date already, and don't jump through her hoops meanwhile
whytehorse2021 2y ago
For women, fun can mean sex or it can mean fun.