For part 1 https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/320367/keeping_the_sparks

So geeky hottie is back from her trip. We didn't text much, like at all except maybe 2 messages back and forth.

2 days ago I went to my new favorite coffee shop to get some work done there and lo' and behold, she's there. All pampered up with her folios and flash cards.

She's sitting alone as usual, a little bit far away from a table of betas that clearly have been orbiting her (they study in the same classes).

I pick a spot, drop my bag, set up my laptop and make for the washroom.

On the way back i pass by her give her a hand wave, she pulls her ear buds and says hi. We chat up a bit, she shakes my hand, I feel a little tension and now the betas are eyeing me like a bunch of hyenas eyeing a lion stealing their prey.

I cut the convo short, I have too much bad experience with cockblocks (both male and female). Also it helped that some girls in the vicinity saw me cozying up with her and she noticed it as well (those girls are like the B- version of her). Some competition vibes in the air.

Anyways, nothing happens, I focus on work and leave. Another day.

That other day is today.

I walk up again to my coffee shop, I don't notice her she is sitting in an odd corner. I walk up by her and I'm startled to see her, she says hi first I stop we chat up a bit, i'm happy that there is some sexual tension going on, but I once again notice the same betas in the vicinity FUCK!.

Anyways, I make a mental note to talk to her later when the betas are not oogling both of us. I feel she's up for some more conversation.

I continue working, I'm restless, I get up, decide to walk around the block a little bit and on the way back i see her exiting the place.

Perfect.

I'm still a bit far away, she walks to her car, sits down.

Now i'm torn, i know I can come off too strong for some girls and I usually have to tone down my alpha a-hole game or they just shit their pants.

What to do? Approaching her when alone in her car might freak her up.

Fuck it. I do it anyways.

I walk up to her car, knock on her window, she cracks a little smile and drops the window down.

We talk a little bit, not much flirting going on, no need to push, she clearly is a little startled by what is considered bold in her book. I can feel she's fidgety and nervous, but her mouth keeps rambling on. I need to build some comfort with this one first (thanks TRP).

Anhways, a good little chat, led her with some questions, let her talk until I felt she finally relaxed. I wanted to push my luck and told her to let me in the car (ooh lala), she got a bit nervous, told me she had to go soon and pick her mom up (which is true).

I knew I was overstepping so I back away with a smile, we continue talking and then i decide she got enough of my attention and let her go.

Gameplan fellas?

My instinct tells me to take it slow with this one. Build comfort first. But I do not want to build too much comfort. Bitches here really know how to string a guy along or to blue ball a man into marriage.

22 year old muslim med student. Geeky and studious. Clearly she's the class princess (looks + rich dad) and a bunch of orbiters fawning over her (plus a lot of intra sexual competition that she acts aloof to).

What do you suggest players?