You can't. The fact you're trying to win her over shows you're too emotionally invested and still have oneitis - i.e. you're an orbiter.

Ignore her and game other women.

Only when you truly no longer give a fuck about her, will she see you as AF. But by that point you won't care about fucking her anyway.

The question you should be asking yourself is why are you pursuing someone who is not interested in you? This is not in your best interest, and you deserve better. You unconciously think that she is too good for you, which is why you want her. This is not your fault, it is related to past experiences with women, probably also your parents. It takes time to learn to stop this kind of behavior. You will not be with this woman, and that's ok. She might be beautiful, but she is not special. You need to focus your attention on other women.

Once an orbiter, always an orbiter. They never get 'promoted'. You're only solution is to move on. It's a bit like the girl who moves to LA to become a movie star, but while she waits for the big role, she is a stripper. They never get the big movie roles.

There are two ways out of the friendzone. Both options suck:

1. Hard Reset. This strategy is where you completely disappear from her life and go on a self improvement journey. You hit the weights, cardio, and diet hard. At the same time elevate your career and status so your not in fast food. So when you do reappear in a few years, you now seem like a Chad that has options and not some pathetic orbiter that cries at her awesomeness when in her presence. That is how your "disappear" then I'll "come back" works.

2. Time. This is when you just hang in there and keep orbiting for the next ten years being her emotional tampon while she has sexual experiences with other men and describe to you how they came on her face and dumped her the next day. If she can't grab Chad or a rich Beta by the time she hits the Wall, you can be there to wife her up. Last Man Standing strategy. This would only work if she is one of the smarter girls keep the ones with "potential" as orbiters and LJBF as they ride the CC either hoping to lock down the billionaire musician CEO astronaut; or at the opposite end of the spectrum go around fucking Mongo the Bad Ass biker, the dope dealer or anyone that isn't marriage material but a whole lot of fun.

https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/

Here is some self improvement reading. The orbiter in this story sounded just like you. He was so deep in the friendzone AND so non-sexual in her eyes that she could tell him about her one night stand with Chad like he was one of the girls. That was his Red Pill, his baseball bat to the head: that he kissed her ass for all that time and she goes and fucks a rando. He finally had enough and walked away. In doing so learned the power of the takeaway.

You don't "end up" being an orbiter, you choose to be one. And you change that by choosing not to be one. Nobody is forcing you.

FIND BETTER OPTIONS!!!

I ended up in a beta orbiter situation after initial mutual attraction.

Chances are the attraction from her was superficial and/or designed to lure you in as a beta. WOMEN DO THIS..... they pretend to be more attracted than they are until they work out if they are truly attracted or not.

That's fine, whatever....... NEXT

How do i change that?

NEXT

I know the "disappear" thing is usual but there'll be a moment i'll "come back", then how?

NEXT

Also girls usually "check their orbiters" when they are abscent and throw them back into that category.

Yes

How to change this AND GET THE BUSINNES - not only "let it go".

NEXT

Look, the easiest way to get one woman is to get other women. And then stop caring about the first woman.

You've got oneitis....... you cannot make it work "with this one special girl", but you can make it work with one girl out of many. But you need to stop caring which one it is.

Sometimes doing nothing can be the way to move. If she’s not into you she won’t be if you pursue, sometimes leaving her alone can make her come back and if she doesn’t you won’t notice as you’ll be pre occupied with other pussy.

I was in a similar situation or am in.

Female friend who I hadn’t previously considered broke up with her bf a year ago. Last few months she’s been texting more inviting me out. We hung out one on one and I could swear she was flirting.

I didn’t do anything as we were hanging out in a group. The next day.

I stupidly said somehting via text and she said something like you’ve been thinking about this a lot haven’t you.

Instant turn off and stopped contacting her.

Still messaging me first and inviting me out. Seeing her for an event Saturday. If it’s there I’ll take it but I won’t pursue it. In friends groups it’s best to flirt and not pursue

Just go. It's not hard.