She is a one night stand. We fucked about a week and half ago. She always texts me the face with hearts emoji. So on text, she is super warm and not cold at all. Every response is within 1-5 minutes.
Well last night i shot her a late text at 2am. I was out drinking and i didnt think she would pick up so late but i did it anyways. She text me the next morning that she was sleeping. The conversation followed like this:
Me: I wanted to see you
Her: I miss you XXXX. Then a bunch of heart emojies
Me: Are you single?
Her: Yes
Me: Im having beers tomorrow at 9pm come with me
Her: Im working tomorrow
Me: What days are you free this week?
Her: Only Saturday and Sunday
Me: Im free next saturday at 9pm we can meet at X
And she just stopped replying. This was like 5 hours ago so theres a chance she writes back, but i feel that it will be a no w/ an excuse because she normally texts quickly. Was she not interested in meeting up again? She told me her off days and even that she was single, she had time to "make excuses", like saying she works all week, she is seeing someone else or whatever. When I went for meetup #2 with logistics she stopped replying. I didnt do anything beta, i was leading and setting logistics
This is of course, after her saying she misses me.
P.S. The "Are you single?" line seems out of place but I use it all the time on girls im in the process of plating. It has worked well for me by saving me time. There are girls out there who will fuck you once and usually say theyre seeing someone else or whatever. I view it as giving them an excuse on a golden platter to not waste each others time. So I have learned to ask them "are you single?" after the ONS when making a second date. Its worked well for me, and every girl that has told me "Yes" are generally not going to waste my time or make excuses.
Should I write her off or wait for a response?
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Scheduling almost a week in advance is too much for the hamster to handle
BabyUareSoSexy 1y ago
This. Don't schedule dates so far ahead, it will make you look low value. And don't waste your weekends on women as well.
Bozza 1y ago
I've had a bunch of these types of situations where I thought I wasn't going to hear anything back. Out of the blue they respond days later, we go on a date and we fuck.
Move your focus onto other plates. If she replies, cool. If she doesn't, cool.
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Bozza 1y ago
@bonus813
I had almost this exact situation occur with a plate this week. In fact I posted about it on the main site.
She did exactly the same thing. I suggested a date, she swerved it. Ignored her for a bit and she invites me over. I agree another date, she swerves it again. I got a bit pissed off and left her on read for a few days.
I then said I'm free friday, and she agreed. Went over there and fucked her.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
wait for response, look for other girls meanwhile.
dongking 1y ago
Seems pointless and even self sabotaging. I'd knock that off.
And yes, this chick does not seem interested. Unless she reschedules ofc.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
why are you asking if she's single or not?
she's a ONS, who cares. You are trying to make her a plate, remember, she's just a plate