I’ve seen some girls who have multiple gay friends somehow. I mean I don’t know if they hangout with them but it’s always girls wishing a former coworker from a restaurant who is gay a happy birthday, or something like that. You just get the vibe that they were closer with these gay guys than they were with others from their job when they worked there.
A couple questions:
Is this a red flag?
What appeal does it have to these women? I don’t judge gay people but to be drawn to that group of people, even if you’re a woman, seems really weird to me.
One example I can give of a girl who is not weirdly into gay dudes is my sister in law. She probably knows some gay people but she makes fun of gays now and then. Not extensively but a normal amount, and I get the feeling that the girls who are friends with gays wouldn’t make fun of gays.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago Stickied
Absolutely 1000% a red flag.
Gay friends are worse than having a mental disorder or two in my opinion.
It's nothing but highly sexualized, high sex drive humans (men) who are more promiscuous on average seemingly than even straight men, encouraging her to be a degenerate slut with no boundaries.
And because it's MEN encouraging her to be a slut, it's a huge breath of fresh air and they run with it even harder than if their female slut friends encouraged it.
Gay guy friends are such a red flag, I cannot understate how utterly destructive gay friends are to a woman's purity, if she even has a shred of it left by the time her gay friends encourage her
Edit: I'm not claiming women are pure, but if your average western hoe is a 4/10 on the purity scale having occasional casual sex, gay friends can and will drop her to a 2/10 on it in a short time frame
GimmeTheUsual 2y ago
It is for sure a red flag.
Regrettably I have experience with a wench that was a "fag hag", befriending these degens. Back in my dumb pre-redpill days. It was quite frankly, a goddamned disaster.
Just take all the inherent horrible qualities of women and combine it with a "friend" who has zero compunction in egging her on to be the best whore she can be. Seriously, the entire gay culture is one of hedonism, so they choose to amplify whatever they can into a sexual context, constantly.
benzino 2y ago
Only if they are like besties and do all sorts of things together. There are so many gays nowadays that most girls will end up knowing a gay guy and eventually befriending them, whether through work, school projects or dance class...
So having a gay friend is something to be careful about, but not a dealbreaker.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
There are a lot of gay guys nowadays but I mean if she is actually hanging out with him even, not just some random in the group but like she does one on one anything with him there is a very high chance of sluttery.
The more gay friends the higher this is multiplied.
So if 4/7 people in the group are gay that night you can bet her hoe influence is very high even if she doesn't hang out with any of them one on one.
I've known enough girls who simply have a flamboyant gay friend (does NOT have to be besties) and they are still horribly influenced by it
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TRPDuryodhana 2y ago
These are actually good points. No idea why folks are downvoting.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
You ask WHY women like having gay men as friends? You need to ask yourself, what KIND of women like having gay besties ....its always modern feminist type women, not traditional women.
Why do modern feminist women like having gay male besties? Because gay men hate women even more than modern feminist women hate themselves. Feminism is a self hatred cult. Modern feminists love men that treat them like shit, and the men that really treat them worse than any chad are gay men. The entire fashion industry is built on the simple dynamic of acidic gay men treating straight women like human garbadge and telling them what they really want to hear - that they are too old, too fat, too unstylish and just basically trash and worthless. The rejection of a gay man is built in - and what these women really want is rejection.
Bulba 2y ago
If a girl has lots of gay friends, there’s a high chance that she isn’t straight either. You’re dealing with someone who’s probably lesbian or bisexual.
pfeilmacher 2y ago
Not necessarily a red flag. It has to be looked at in context.
And ask yourself if you'd rather a girl have a bunch of straight male friends than gay male friends.
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pfeilmacher 2y ago
The girl I'm currently seeing is legitimately a "good girl". Very low body count. She has a number of gay male friends who are for the most part well behaved, and she doesn't go out partying with them. These are primarily school friends she hangs out with between classes, but she will occasionally meet them for a coffee. She rarely drinks.
I think in this context, it's ok for her to have gay friends.
And I would never want her hanging around the guy I know who's been with 500 people.
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RedPill115 2y ago
Girls instincts are largely based on hunter gatherer times, I think they're modelling staying attached to a (non-sexual) parent or important figure while sleeping with other people until an external force (pregnancy) causes them to attach to that person long term.
Thing is...this is a not-unusual pattern or behavior around puberty.
And obviously in modern times this is waaaaaaaaaaay earlier than people start having kids of their own, so they're like...in this pattern for a decade longer than usual? They're sort of stuck there because that external force (pregnancy) doesn't come along and push them into a long term choice like it did in the environment this behavior evolved in.
I don't think there's anything wrong with these girls as "plates", the issue is that to long term to bond they need extreme external pressure - that largely doesn't exist any more. Pressure from being pregnant, social pressure from the group around them (nearly every society pressures a pregnant woman to settle down for obvious reasons), pressure from her parents to move past being a child, etc. They girls can sleep around all the time but there's a complete lack of bonding in the way that they do it.
My 2 cents at least.
edit: On review I realized you said "multiple gay friends" and that's not really what I'm talking about...I'm talking about when she's overly attached to exactly 1 gay guy friend and everyone would think they're dating if he didn't mention that he's gay every 5 minutes.
Women with multiple gay friends is the similar to their desire to collect beta males non-sexually, their instincts are to try to have people around who are useful to them without the sex or romance drama.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Well my ex-gf ex-prostitute had a gay friend. He was super effeminate. She was also cheating on me with a bi guy and they asked me to have a 3-way. I guess hoes of a feather flock together(e.g. promiscuous people have a lot in common).