I’ve seen some girls who have multiple gay friends somehow. I mean I don’t know if they hangout with them but it’s always girls wishing a former coworker from a restaurant who is gay a happy birthday, or something like that. You just get the vibe that they were closer with these gay guys than they were with others from their job when they worked there.

A couple questions:

Is this a red flag?

What appeal does it have to these women? I don’t judge gay people but to be drawn to that group of people, even if you’re a woman, seems really weird to me.

One example I can give of a girl who is not weirdly into gay dudes is my sister in law. She probably knows some gay people but she makes fun of gays now and then. Not extensively but a normal amount, and I get the feeling that the girls who are friends with gays wouldn’t make fun of gays.