I get teasing, flirting, and whatever as a shit test but I'm having a hard time with blatant disrespect. Today I walked up to 2 girls I had met before to chat with them. They were both studying together and also talking. After some talk, one of them says "don't you have to study for something?" To which I reply that I was waiting on other classmates for a group study session.
It kind of chapped my ass internally because this same girl also encouraged me to go play sports with other people outside on campus after I asked what was going on.
I think she's a little butthurt because her friend is actually the hot one and many people know and talk to her rather than her friend which for some reason, HATES my ass.
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User4566 1y ago
Sometimes I like to learn. Not mention, if she wasn't such a total cunt douchebag then I would have been more interested.
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
You should be happy you’re getting them it means they find you attractive. Just pass them and have them confirm their attraction.
You don’t have to put up with anything you don’t want to, but women will be bitchy and shit test. It’s how they’re wired.
financehardo420 1y ago
completely false women are only bitchy if they’re not attracted to you. or Mayb jaded in this case like the other chick
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financehardo420 1y ago
***not attracted lmaooo
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
You’re saying women can’t be bitchy if they’re attracted to you?
financehardo420 1y ago
if they’re attracted to you theyll be a lot more submissive and make it easier to rizz em up
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Depends on the chick.
Some chicks have a backwards logic of trying to emasculate/attack the men they truly like.
In their head it's about "i'm not that easy".
And then there are those that make it too easy.
I'm guessing you're spending too much time with high body count sloots.
The others throw as many hurdles as they can so that later on they can rationalize to themselves that it is not their fault, they were overwhelmed.
financehardo420 1y ago
I mean sure some will like to do a bit of banter n tease you a bit id say that’s different.
Saw my ex oneitis at the bar a couple weeks ago. I’ve had considerable gainz since we last saw each other n bitch couldn’t stop staring at my biceps. However, she still tried to talk shit on my legs n say I’m top heavy even tho i rep damn near 1000lb on leg press.
She talked some shit on my legs but still wanted my dick. Got pissed went home and reblocked me after she watched me Rizz another bitch.
Lol.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
It's possible that this is a shit test riddled with self-loathing
It's also likely blatant disrespect riddled with self loathing
Blatant disrespect usually isn't a shit test unless there is some kind of tone or humor that indicates room for shit testing.
So no. The answer to your question is no
User4566 1y ago
Maybe it wasn't blatant disrespect, but it was kind of passive aggressive and I'm very good at socially reading between the lines. She's telling me to get lost without saying it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Plenty of women out there who will love you man! go get them
User4566 1y ago
Thank you :)
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Of course man. Any time (:
You've made tremendous progress in your cold approach journey, you should be proud
financehardo420 1y ago
if it ain’t a fuck yes it’s a fuck no.
don’t waste another second of your time entertaining some useless cunt if she isn’t giving you immediate signals of interest.
spend your time in the gym or on other females that actually want to fuck you. if they’re not actively smiling, laughing at your jokes, being nice and inviting etc etc you’re wasting your time; she just isn’t attracted.
User4566 1y ago
What are some things you look for that are for-sure signals? Every woman I have ever approached smiles, but that was never a guarantee that they liked me.
financehardo420 1y ago
Here’s a couple. You enter the bar and chillin w your boys/walking to get a drink and a chick locks eyes w you. Mayb smiles at you. Def pull up and start rizzing that is your cue.
Then it’s just how she responds to whatever you’re saying. If she’s like going with it n keeping convo going then you’ve got decent chances.
On the other hand, if she’s acting closed off, being short etc etc she wants you to fuck off. Second you get an inch of fuck off vibes just fuck off and talk to the next bird. If she’s horny for you she’ll put her hands on you touch u in shit
User4566 1y ago
Thanks man
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
He knows what's up. I'm not good at math but I'm still willing to bet that the amount of opportunities we waste while chasing the wrong person is astronomical
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
And this is some of the more simple-minded of us - like myself - are prone to. I was literally in a room full of attractive birds just yesterday, a lot of them were showing interest, and just one of them was stand-offish and that's the one I decided to waste almost all of my time there on until I finally snapped out of it, realizing what I'm doing. We tend to want things we can't have, even if that thing isn't much worth to us or better than the things we do have.
koedeloe123 1y ago
This is not a shit test, she just asked you a basic question.
Lone_Ranger 1 1y ago
Going to be brutally honest here - you are coming across as an entitled little incel. When you talk about 'disrespect'....this is a red flag. Why do these two girls owe you respect? Are you in some sort of relationship? No? Then why the hell would they owe you any 'respect'?
Sounds like you walked up to 2 chicks, tried a little light game, got rejected, and you're having a hard time processing. If they aren't interested, you can't take that to heart. They don't owe you anything, the fact that you might think otherwise means you have a lot to learn.
First thing you need to learn is that nobody owes you any respect.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Agree. Not a shit test.
Sure she was disrespectful, but what were your emotional and practical responses OP? Butthurt.
Reminding you of two important strategies for dealing with women:
Lionsmane8 1y ago
After a while, you won't even feel those snarky remarks.
Most shit they throw is mostly a reflection of their internal emotional state. Has nothing to do with you.
Once they figure that it's pointless to try to verbally bully you they'll just stop doing it.
At that point they'll either submit to your frame (you can bang them if you'd like to then) or just fade out/avoid you because you're a living reminder of how inadequate they are.
If it gets too far, you can give them a wrist slap: "hey, don't be a bad girl". Remember you're the daddy here.
Don't mind it.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
"Studying...right..." Looks at her friend "I'll be seeing you later..." stroll away