I turned 23 a couple months ago, I’ve only ever slept with 1 girl (which turned into a toxic relationship) that I just cut contact with. I’ve finished college and am now working a good job but I feel like I’ve missed my opportunity to not only sleep with young attractive women, but also to achieve great things. I just feel like I’ve missed the boat, didn’t expect to get this old this quickly. What ages did everyone find TRP and find success? Should I feel like I’m starting too late? Is missing out on college that big of a deal?
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deanbarton 2y ago
Oh guy! Why do you think you miss a chance of sleeping with young attractive women. Loving and sleeping with one girl is an evidence that you are a good guy. Believe me! It is an attractive point for girls. Besides, if you do not join college, you still have more chances to earn money and change your life. Other guys study knowledge from professors at college while you can learn knowledge from successful people at the life school. Nothing is too late. cubes 2048
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
I'm going to be 50 this year. I found the Red Pill 5 years ago. Trust me, young brother, you haven't missed anything.
Lone_Ranger 2 2y ago
Dude, put away these negative thoughts. The world is just beginning for you. I'm past 50 now. You are WAY off your peak. I think my peak (in terms of banging women) was probably about 42-48. if you were a girl, then you would be right, your peak would be 23. For a guy? no way. Some guys peak at 60.
Focus on money, wealth, power, networks, skills, education, reading, leadership. These are NOT things that peak at 23. It's no coincidence that its normal for the president of the USA to be over 70!!!!
xyzxyz 2y ago
No, you are still young. 23 is nothing. I found TRP at 19, but started becoming a man at 25, 3 years ago. Broke up with a bad ltr then, found a good doctor who fixed my mental issues, started a new career, met a lot of cool girls, made new interesting friends, found a good LTR material woman who is 5yrs younger than me. Girls won't care if you are a late bloomer if you are cool now.
Build yourself, befriend other men, stay fit, stay confident and the girls will come
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 2y ago
a little bit late to the party on young attractive chicks (sadly college is the biggest fuck fest of all time and if you haven’t been taking advantage idk).
in terms of achieving greatness fuck no you have your whole life ahead of you and you got a good job.
I won’t bullshit you; it’s a bit easier getting laid in college and in college bars etc as opposed to the real adult world. College was training wheels and if you didn’t clap cheeks in college, you’re gonna start out a bit behind the learning curve.
but that’s ok. action plan:
1) go to gym, eat healthy, n get some fucking gains.
2) after you’ve achieved a muscular physique, buy well fitted clothes that show it off.
3) find some male friends and go out to the bars with them. every weekend is a new opportunity for you to practice your rizz.
Rinse n repeat till it clicks and you’ll be spinning plates in no time brother. Takes 10 years to master a craft so by time you’re 33/near peak smv you’ll be chilling dw.
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Einsamer 2y ago
Looking back, around 23 was when things slowly started to get better for me. If you apply TRP knowledge and work on yourself then you can really look forward to the next 10 years.
MidgetSpinner 2y ago
Dude, it's only just the beginning for you. Granted, many others have a head start over you, but you're 7 years away from your prime. You'd be amazed at how much you can grow and achieve in a year if you apply yourself. Lose this defeatist mentality because that is what will kill your opportunities.
TRPDuryodhana 2y ago
You're not
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/319396/feeling_like_i_got_redpilled_too_late
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/179942/wondering_if_i_m_too_late_to_red_pill
Lionsmane8 2y ago
23?? Dude, at 23 i barely completed adolescence.
You didn't even finish the tutorial and you're still in the prologue.
TRPPRT2021 2y ago
22 here, and I understand exactly where you're coming from. Even yesterday I had this light 'anxiety' and thought "shit, I'm running out of time and I haven't even fucked yet", but then I realised that I've made insane progress and my mind is in an amazing place for growth, not only in terms of women.
It isn't bullshit when they say that success is non-linear and that is spirals at an insane rate, once you notice it it'll keep getting better.
You need to reframe your mind, that takes time, but I try to find lessons in things that the average Joe would think "oh well this is life I guess I'll just be a shit cunt because bla bla bla", regardless of the experience.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Yeah, at your age I was humping an M16 in a dirt fox hole. In 10 years you'll have your pick of any woman on the planet.