They have scarcity mindset and think if they spend 2.5 seconds away from their girl they'll get dumped. That and they end up going through mental and emotional torment they're not willing to share. Their relationships start out honey moon and then they internally start rotting from within. You don't see it till their relationships overtly start falling apart.

You deal with it by accepting you became friends with blue-pillers. You appreciate the good times for what they were and then you focus on meeting men who don't piss their lives away the second they meet a chick.

It sucks but your solution is to accept how many men you are close to are plugged in and make more wise friending decisions after you yourself are unplugged from the matrix

Some of my best friends of all time have done this. It blows. But that's reality. How men act is also a red pill. TRP isn't just a woman's game. The red pill also discusses much about how men really work too.

There is nothing wrong with feeling the disappointment you do. All of us have lost plugged in friends to women. You're not alone

Many years ago when I was in uni, I had a friend (or so I thought). The guy was the epitome of reliability (or so I thought).

The strange thing is that he always liked to assume the position of the wiser guy, helping out and being genuine. Funny thing though, we would always get into these religious debates (I'm muslim and he's born christian) and he prided himself on being an atheist, defending the scientific dogma and the cult of the white coats bla bla bla.

There was this chick I had a thing going on with, and did not want anymore. I also knew the past stories of that girl, or what she hides behind that innocent cutsy vulnerable face of hers.

I figured I'd introduce them and I regret that.

The guy transformed. Once a fervent atheist, he stated going to sunday sermons with her. All of his convictions and passionate opinions evaporated with one whiff of that girls' pussy.

He changed waaay too much and even the people who knew him from before could not recognize him.

Needless to say, we lost trust in him. His personality was a sham all along.

Not even a month into the relationship he payed for her vacation, introduced her to his parents and all that bullshit. If only he knew the skeletons she had in her closet.

And even if he did, it wouldn't change anything. He'd ignore it, too enamored with his slightly above average second hand girl.

Betas are pathetic.

Get used to it. You don't have to cut them off but expect just a phone call every few years or maybe a night out for dinner and drinks. I have a friend of 30 years and I give him plausible deniability to get out away from his wife. Going golfing, drinks with co-workers, etc.

I have the same problem. I basically expect it at this point. My friends are pretty fucking stupid and always become super pussy-whipped once they get a girlfriend. I think the best thing to do is be supportive and don't call them out for their bitchness because they WILL cut ties with you for the bitch every time. I noticed that when I was supportive, they started to come around and make time to talk to me because they know I won't bash them even if they deserve it. You also have to remember that these guys likely aren't red-pilled and they put women on a pedestal.

soo kind of on you to choose these people as friends? no one's making you.