I think we often get caught up in looking out for women with Red flags. Which, in all fairness, is a vital discernment to be able to make. However, figuring out Green flags can be a bit more complicated.

Some say they look for a trad con Christian/ religious woman, others say submissive/ femineity, dressing modestly/ demure, low body count etc. I am not trying to discount these markers, but there are so many, and Unicorns obviously aren't out there.

For ex. what if a girl is trad but not con, what if she's con but not demure, and so on. Girls can dress slutty but have a low body count and dress modestly and have a high one. So how does one weed out the good traits from the bad ones?

As it pertains to me, I'm meeting with a chick this weekend who has a lot of Green flags; modest, feminine hobbies (cooks, sings, theatre), kind/ not standoffish, etc. That's about all I can think of atm, but are there any other "flags" I should be looking out for?