You don’t. Unless you already look stage ready mr olympia classic physique you need to spend every minute in there focusing on building yourself up to look better outside of the gym.
Even if she offers to suck your dick point blank right there you should be weighing your options if it’s worth losing the workout, because she’s nothing compared to your potential.
The only guy I ever saw do it successfully in real life was a guy that just went up to them and had normal conversations with them and got them on dates after that
He didn't run game. he just got them in his orbit and then proceeded from there
Still, it's a shit idea and most girls hate being approached in the gym
Everyone I have ever asked about this says don't do it. It would appear to have very low success rates and quite high risk of getting a ban from the gym. Women love nothing more than walking around in barely nothing (thirst trap) and then when a man approaches, they 'dont feel safe' (despite being in an environment with CCTV and a million witnesses) and report the guy who then gets a ban (#believe all women). Just don't do it.
My observation of hawt chicks in the gym is that the display that they put on is for the mirror, not for you. They just love the mirror. Their only concern is getting a better angle at which they can ogle their own ass. In their heads, they're dreaming of new shots that they can take of their ass when they get home so that they can post that to IG, and all the likes they are going to get from thirsty simps and bots that simulate thirsty bots to keep the traffic alive. Any dude talking to them is taking away from time that could be spent admiring themselves. This generation of women has gone full psycho in terms of narcissism and vanity.
I've seen plenty of guys do this at the gym. One guy in particular, he would approach girls, 'help' them with their exercise and put his hands on the girls shoulder/hip while explaining it. You could tell some girls were uncomfortable with it, others didn't care. He was actually hitting on one of my co-workers who's 17 years old, which was kind of weird.
He's a friendly guy though, and he's dating one of the girls at our local gyms now, so good for him, but I can't help but label him as a creep/weirdo. Personally I won't ever approach girls at the gym, and I advice you to do the same.
Although I'm analysing at the moment possibility of 'strangers'. Some gyms give away free tickets to member to share it with friends or have one off access. If you're at given gym 2y it is pretty possible you know most of the faces and by looking at exp level of someone new you can say they are 'strangers' coming only one off. Then you need to analyse behaviour while exercising and off you go. Instead of 99% chance of being reported you will get 50-80%*
I am not sure about how things go in the western wastelands but here i always pick up girls at the gym. My phone is full of them and my last chick was from the gym.
I'd just spot a cutie (usually she spots me too), we'd gravitate towards each other. I'd make up some bullshit about her form or whatever and see how she responds (usually positively), then i classify (is she here for free attention, here to socialize, here to find a chad, here for nothing etc.).
Then we'd talk about gym related stuff and maybe do a few exercises together, exchange numbers. Then we sometimes agree to plan another workout session or just agree on meeting elsewhere.
After that it's text game and tht will tell you if she is interested to carry it forward or if there is chemistry/momentum. Then it's up to you to set a date, meet uo, build tension and some comfort, esclate etc.
I'll put it in simple terms: You have to be Gigachad, otherwise it's a bad idea.
(It can work but chances a girl finds an average looking guy attractive while there are greek gods right next to you are quite small.)
Really? I've actually got a few girls numbers there but I never smashed any of them. They were 7s, decent faces with fat asses. It sucks that I didn't smash them, but at the same time they weren't very enthusiastic about going on dates so I moved on.
Congruency is key here. The moment you try to fake something you're toast. In my experience, at the times I go to the gym, it's mostly prostitutes - oops I mean onlyfans models and strippers. The other chicks are usually fat, old, or unattractive, or are married and have no kids yet. I can think of at least a dozen better places to get chicks.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Just no.
Girls usually aren't into it - they feel sweaty and gross and unattractive.
A gym is a man's personal space for getting fit. You don't need some girl fucking it up.
User4566 1y ago
Thank you for the reply, I know this question is asked A LOT.
nicknack 1y ago
You don’t. Unless you already look stage ready mr olympia classic physique you need to spend every minute in there focusing on building yourself up to look better outside of the gym.
Even if she offers to suck your dick point blank right there you should be weighing your options if it’s worth losing the workout, because she’s nothing compared to your potential.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Don't.
The only guy I ever saw do it successfully in real life was a guy that just went up to them and had normal conversations with them and got them on dates after that
He didn't run game. he just got them in his orbit and then proceeded from there
Still, it's a shit idea and most girls hate being approached in the gym
User4566 1y ago
Whenever I approach women, I usually have normal conversations with them before asking them out to see if they are responsive and polite.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Yup, but I'm not even sure he asked them out, gym game is different.
I think he let them chat him up across multiple days and the would ask them
User4566 1y ago
Interesting. I'm thinking of even simply befriending girls there just to get +social points bing chilling
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Yeah. Would be better to just extract social proof and not game them
He told me for every hot girl there he befriended and didn't outright game, he got recommended to their friends too
Lone_Ranger 1 1y ago
Everyone I have ever asked about this says don't do it. It would appear to have very low success rates and quite high risk of getting a ban from the gym. Women love nothing more than walking around in barely nothing (thirst trap) and then when a man approaches, they 'dont feel safe' (despite being in an environment with CCTV and a million witnesses) and report the guy who then gets a ban (#believe all women). Just don't do it.
My observation of hawt chicks in the gym is that the display that they put on is for the mirror, not for you. They just love the mirror. Their only concern is getting a better angle at which they can ogle their own ass. In their heads, they're dreaming of new shots that they can take of their ass when they get home so that they can post that to IG, and all the likes they are going to get from thirsty simps and bots that simulate thirsty bots to keep the traffic alive. Any dude talking to them is taking away from time that could be spent admiring themselves. This generation of women has gone full psycho in terms of narcissism and vanity.
TLDR: Don't.
User4566 1y ago
Thanks for the response.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
Caveat: I haven't done any pickup all the way to fucking since 2004. Married and faithful (so far).
Gym is like work: if you can't be without it, don't do it.
Much like the loss of that job, you risk getting banned from that gym. 99.999% of the time, it's not worth it.
User4566 1y ago
The world really is a different place compared to 2004.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
Yeah. If anything, you are more likely to get kicked out now.
BabyUareSoSexy 1y ago
I've seen plenty of guys do this at the gym. One guy in particular, he would approach girls, 'help' them with their exercise and put his hands on the girls shoulder/hip while explaining it. You could tell some girls were uncomfortable with it, others didn't care. He was actually hitting on one of my co-workers who's 17 years old, which was kind of weird.
He's a friendly guy though, and he's dating one of the girls at our local gyms now, so good for him, but I can't help but label him as a creep/weirdo. Personally I won't ever approach girls at the gym, and I advice you to do the same.
RedPill115 1y ago
lmao @ "guys who are romantically successful "> creepy weirdos".
Bro, you just 100% defined the feninist mentality.
kurkumaonce 1y ago
Don't.
Although I'm analysing at the moment possibility of 'strangers'. Some gyms give away free tickets to member to share it with friends or have one off access. If you're at given gym 2y it is pretty possible you know most of the faces and by looking at exp level of someone new you can say they are 'strangers' coming only one off. Then you need to analyse behaviour while exercising and off you go. Instead of 99% chance of being reported you will get 50-80%*
*Badger Group Analysis
Lionsmane8 1y ago
I am not sure about how things go in the western wastelands but here i always pick up girls at the gym. My phone is full of them and my last chick was from the gym. I'd just spot a cutie (usually she spots me too), we'd gravitate towards each other. I'd make up some bullshit about her form or whatever and see how she responds (usually positively), then i classify (is she here for free attention, here to socialize, here to find a chad, here for nothing etc.). Then we'd talk about gym related stuff and maybe do a few exercises together, exchange numbers. Then we sometimes agree to plan another workout session or just agree on meeting elsewhere. After that it's text game and tht will tell you if she is interested to carry it forward or if there is chemistry/momentum. Then it's up to you to set a date, meet uo, build tension and some comfort, esclate etc.
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User4566 1y ago
I'm not saucy, but I'm in shape.
6'4" 205 pounds. 13% bf
I walk around like I own the place because I'm stronger than 90% of people here.
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
I'll put it in simple terms: You have to be Gigachad, otherwise it's a bad idea. (It can work but chances a girl finds an average looking guy attractive while there are greek gods right next to you are quite small.)
User4566 1y ago
Really? I've actually got a few girls numbers there but I never smashed any of them. They were 7s, decent faces with fat asses. It sucks that I didn't smash them, but at the same time they weren't very enthusiastic about going on dates so I moved on.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Congruency is key here. The moment you try to fake something you're toast. In my experience, at the times I go to the gym, it's mostly prostitutes - oops I mean onlyfans models and strippers. The other chicks are usually fat, old, or unattractive, or are married and have no kids yet. I can think of at least a dozen better places to get chicks.
User4566 1y ago
Im a 23 year old student. Most of my time is school/home/gym
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah I'd be hitting the college campus for women.