I've been getting IOI's from a really attractive girl, but I've noticed that there's another guy, with around the same SMV, who's also interested in her. Worse still, he is also getting IOI's. I really want to get with this girl, but I don't know how I should act when the other guy and me are both speaking to her, or when I'm speaking to the guy in private. Should I cut back on my game when he's around, or should I exaggerate it to stake my claim? When speaking to the guy one-on-one, should I be friendly or slightly hostile? I hope you guys can help with this.
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