Ive been lurking on trp for a while and ive taken the leap by going to thr gym and fixing my diet, i havent been at it long enough to see drastic tesults but i feel the need to drastically increase smv in a effective way because im tired and frustrated of being completely invisible to girls, im not even seen as a sexual object (5'10 @ 102lbs) and have still not lost my virginity at 23.

What are the most important and effective steps to increase my smv as fast as possible?