Last few times I went to party I've failed to score despite looking the best I ever have (181lbs). The friends I've been going with literally cannot believe it because some of them look up to me and they managed to get with some hotties. I'm starting to wonder if it's because I adjusted too far towards outcome independence which might make me look a bit like a sperg since all I want to do is make out then escalate into something more, I do realize I've been putting very little effort into social banter and the like

Anyone ever experienced this? It's fucking with my head a little but maybe it's just a brief cold stretch