Last few times I went to party I've failed to score despite looking the best I ever have (181lbs). The friends I've been going with literally cannot believe it because some of them look up to me and they managed to get with some hotties. I'm starting to wonder if it's because I adjusted too far towards outcome independence which might make me look a bit like a sperg since all I want to do is make out then escalate into something more, I do realize I've been putting very little effort into social banter and the like
Anyone ever experienced this? It's fucking with my head a little but maybe it's just a brief cold stretch
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kv2_0833 1y ago
Yeah you're right, thinking back to my most successful nights it was always when people I wanted to party with bailed so I just went out by myself not expecting anything, thanks bro
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Are you coming across as obviously wanting to fuck without sufficient of rapport, comfort, or plausible deniability.
Women need to psychologically warm up to sex and if you're going straight from make out to trying to pull without other puzzle pieces in place they are going to resist
kv2_0833 1y ago
Yeah having a lot of success turned me into a bit of a sperg in that regard cause I stopped caring so much, I mean it was a party setting but I see clearly now what I was doing wrong
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
It happens to us all
I'm glad you see in retrospect what went wrong.
There's a temptation some times to pull when you're feeling like you've got it in the bag but the girl needs to warm up more
maxtheberger 1y ago
Just stop caring entirely