It's true that sperm count starts going down at age 35, but it's still very possible for an 80 year old man to make a woman pregnant. So whatever argument you're making it doesn't have anything to do with biology.

Women are coping because they choose to, men are coping because have no other choice given stats.

You're having massive doubts at this point if that fact escapes you.

As a man you will be left coping no matter what. Is it on your own terms or divorce court terms is the question.

You're likely having that for same reasons as me to question (and rest of thinking men) and it really takes processing power and will not to forget what will happen if you stop coping on your terms.

Lonliness being the biggest factor.

Top men (or those with game skills ie tempered dark triad) will less likely feel lonely being hit on by someone all life, men, women. Not same for the rest.

Hence I say it again men are setting themselves too high entry point for friends. Or lack.drive to make them. But maybe I cant see beyond my own nose and Miss something.

Edit

Thought: males finding mates are like women with men. We're not chasing chads and emotion but money and puss.

sometimes feel like I’m going to be 30 and post wall as a man.

As a man your SMV has several aspects. Age has very little to do with that. Depending on your efforts, you can look better, have more money, higher social status, and have better game at 36 than 25. That's just an obvious fact.

If you make little effort to improve your SMV, your personal peak will come earlier simply from your higher base testosterone levels.

do I want to be 60 when the oldest graduates high school?

Valid question to ask yourself. My answer was no, so i had a kid in my mid 20s and have no regrets. I found a decent girl with few red flags and went for it despite giving up a lot of personal freedom in the process. You do you.

would a 25 year old woman want her husband to be 60 when the oldest kid gets out of school?

Depends on the man and the woman. But this question shows a bad mental point of origin. It serves no purpose for you and stems from your blue pill conditioning.