I haven't had sex in years. The last few years have been horrible. I've also started losing my hair and have lost so much confidence. I haven't cared much but lately it's really getting to me. I can't remember the last time I had any kind of sexual interaction with a girl or even a girl look at me. I have tried dating apps but I only match with fat women. My standards are not too high but I can't do obese chicks. Where do I start?