Do you guys do this sometimes? Does it mean you f'ed up? Can it be a viable strategy?
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Problemadelacasa 1y ago
Just take her to some isolated place and do it. Don't think about it so much. Or you can abstain from it while chad thundercock will put his dick in her mouth without even spending a cent taking her out on a date.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Nope. That's a blue pill strategy. Makes her think that you're a "gentleman" who "respects her space" and is "a nice guy". You gotta put some skin in the game. Push-pull and stuff. Girls are more reactive to guys who are willing to take a risk, even if it means failure. Even if she doesn't like you, she'll respect the fact that like "a real man" you go for what you want.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Someone once told me "it's sometimes better to ask for forgiveness than permission"
It's better to go for the kiss and be temporarily rejected for a later kiss than yo do nothing at all in my opinion
To answer your question, yes, I have skipped a kiss before and still got a second date where we made out and more
MrSupreme 1y ago
I've hat dates with kisses and then the chicks stop anwering followup texts after the date, one even went ahead and blocked me, so not kissing on a first date might not be all that bad I guess
NeoSpartan 1y ago
I've had this happen to me once. Went for it, got rejected she said something like "I don't do that until I know a guy better" But... she also started going on her phone during phase 2 of the date when we changed venue. Conflicting issue is she seemed super into me during the first phase. Overreacted and ghosted her after. Might have been a mistake. In hindsight, the second venue was too deserted and may have caused some problems. I've heard from multiple girls that I come off as "intense and mysterious" and a little scary so I try to lean heavily into forging comfort during dates. 2nd venue made this hard to do, might have been why, though admittedly I was a bit off my game that day, at least for the second part. Might salvaged it though, had I been less hot headed. Good chance I fucked myself there.
It probably isn't a clear sign that you fucked up though, I have a friend who told me he almost never kissed during the first date and he still got laid sometimes. His approach seemed to be more focused on emotional bonding without much if any kino. Viable strat apparently, but not ideal imo. Most of his dates went nowhere.
That's my anecdotal experience with this issue. Hope it helps.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Depends on the date. I usually do not kiss at the first date if it's for coffee or some other daytime activity where i do not take a girl home. I find the tension is high for the 2nd date then. As long as you kino escalate and lead you dont strictly need to put your mouth on hers for things to happen.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Yes it can be a viable strategy
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I usually don't kiss women. Just cum in them.