When I install it I get matches in the beggining,like I get 6-7 matches in the first week,than it starts to slow down and down until I stop getting any match at all.Most of the matches dont reply at all.
I stopped swiping because it's such a damage to self esteem to swipe 100 times for a week and dont get a single match.Like being rejected by 700 girls. I havent been on it for like 3 months and when I return like there is only 4 likes from which one is trans.
I did deleted my profile several times,last time I waited 3 months time before that I dont know. I was excited about tinder ,I read everything in the sidebar about online dating ,about looks,being fit.Like I went from being fat to having six pack abs,muscles, I really worked hard to get good body and took some intresting photos on the holiday,near sea.But nothing,I have it for like year and a half and npt only that I couldnt get a date,I could not get a talk with my matches longer then few replies with time space of several hours.
I always wonder wonder would being in Usa get me better results because there is more people and I have a feeling that there is more people used to online dating than in Eastern Europe.
When I put pictures of some guy that is somewhat of instagram model,like taller 6 ft 2 and super skinny with probbably attractive face and his quality instagram photos all in clothes without body showing I would get from 6-10 matches a day.Most girls still wouldnt reply but 10% of them which were average or above did ,which didnt made a problem when you have so many matches daily.
I can only conclude that I am ugly, which I wouldnt know if I didnt made a profile on tinder. I find it weird that of 100 girls no swipes right on me,when I put pictures on rating sites usually 10-50% of women rate me as attractive 35% somewhat and 10-15 unattractive. My score on photofeeler compared to other guys on that site is from 5 to 6.5 the highest.Meaning that I am better than 50 or 65 precent of guys and worse than 50 or 35%.I couldnt make a better picture so far,although I tested 10-15 pictures,it goes really slow when you are not paying for it.
I intend to make even better body in years that come and take more photos without shirt showing abs but outside ,on the beach for example. When I get really lean and muscled again I will try to find someone to take 100 of pictures of me each day from different angles in different activities outside. I will buy tinder gold and buy boosts.Also I will buy credits for photofeeler to test as many photos as fast as possible.
Anyone who wants can see my profile individually ,give me some tips and opinions but I am not posting it here publicly.
SlipSunnySIde 2y ago
its a scam bro -- dont waste anymore time on there, get a massage instead. develop yourself the p-sleeve is hard to resist but you aint getting any, so stop it
pofkaf 1 2y ago
OLD is a waste of time unless you pay for the premium services. Even then, you have to be a model to get much success.
And don't don't bother with other apps. They're all owned by the same parent company. They use the same business model.
Get off your couch and approach women irl. You'll have much better results.
AllBlack087 2y ago
What is OLD btw
RealmOfFrost 2y ago
Online dating
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wswZtyqNGQ 2y ago
The data points to the fact that the bottom 96.5% of men get almost no attention at all on OLD apps. So if you're in the 65% percentile + range that makes you too far to get anything but validation-seekers. Women be like that today.
Don't bother with OLD. Instead, focus on IRL approaches. And improving yourself mentally and physically while also gaining attractiveness will give you much better chances than OLD apps ever could and better off as an individual as well.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
You guys are being black-pilled. You CAN get laid on tinder. I gaurantee your profiles are not good and your "it's a scam/waste of time/insert excuse here" is not the problem, your profiles are the problem
Further AFTER you get matches, your opener, conversation skills, and plans close is probably not good either. You can get laid on tinder, most of you are probably doing it wrong and sour-graping your experiences
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Agree, there's a learning curve to dating apps. When I first started it was shit, then I learned things and applied them. Now, it's pretty damn easy to secure a date with a cute girl every weekend if I want one. I'm not a model either and I'm short af.
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NeoSpartan 2y ago
Lol thanks man. If only I wasn't 5'6 lmao XD
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Exactly, I was dog shit when I started. What changed the game for me was adding like 2 additional (decent but not even great) photos and improving my tinder Openers
NeoSpartan 2y ago
For high match, low close apps like tinder I just copy pasted an opener and changed the name to w/e girl it was. Saved a lot of time.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
That wasn't working for me though, I did a different strategy and it worked great
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Haha that is true, personalized openers are best for sure. I actually got in argument with this girl a few days ago and halfway into it she straight up said she thought my opener sounded copy paste.
Lol that one was fun, I really ruffled her feathers I think XD Felt like a lost cause anyway so I just went super heavy on the teasing.
Bulba 2y ago
Tinder doesn’t work very well unless you live in a major city. Spend a weekend in Moscow, London or Paris. You will get very different results from OLD at these locations.
AllBlack087 2y ago
I live in a city of more than a million and less than 2 million people
Bulba 2y ago
That’s not enough for putting Tinder on easy mode. 2 million is nothing. We’re talking about cities with more than 10 million people.
AllBlack087 2y ago
Its way less than 2 million
whytehorse2021 2y ago
If any dating app worked they would go out of business. You have to think of it like an advertising platform for your personal brand. You are a success object to women. You're advertising a lifestyle. Check out the tinder swindler for pro tips. He had all the right pics, the instagram social proof, the sense of urgency, etc.
What these women are doing is looking for alpha bux and so they swipe tinder for the alpha looking guys and then go to his instagram for social proof, status, preselection, money, etc. Once they've done all that you've defeated their hypergamous filter and they fuck you.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Dude........ forget OLD....... it's dumb. If you're not top 1%, it doesn't work. Girls in real life give you better feedback and fuck you faster.