Lads, I am turning 21 soon and have failed to find a worthwhile career since graduating.
I worked at a couple restaurants, worked retail, have applied to union apprenticeships, and unfortunately have not hit it big yet.
-Just go hustle buddy
See the problem is, it is incredibly easy to waste your time on fuckshit. For example- going to trade school when you can just get an apprenticeship, or going to some retarded "vocational school" that will give you retarded certs that do nothing to actually help you, but take up a year or two of your time and thousands of dollars.
So, would the best course of action be to keep applying to these apprenticeships? To get a security guard cert and go do that? I'm struggling to find a "way in" and wanted to ask how some of you made it through this initial entry and what else I could be doing that will actually bear fruit and won't waste my time and money.
Maybe I need to get more creative or maybe I just need patience. Any advice is much appreciated, gents.

mattyanon Admin 3y ago
RELENTLESSLY for FIFTY HOURS PER WEEK.
Fuck patience for starters. Patience is just an excuse for doing fuck all. Show me a patient man and I'll show you a failure.
Be IMPATIENT AS FUCK. The only caveat is this: you have to actively stick at things for a while before they pan out. But it looks a lot more like hard work than patience. Fuck Patience.
Yep.
Apprenticeships...... sure, maybe, but do your research about what it looks like coming out the other end.
Right now there's a massive demand for all trades. Call up fifty companies and tell them "I want to be a plumber, I am hard working and diligent and you'll find me invaluable within a week". When fifity companies turn you down, think again..... Until then, you haven't tried. Accept ANY WAGES including none for the first month. You can always apply elsewhere as you learn shit. This will get you a real job and you'll get ahead of the official apprenticeships and qualifications in no time.
And yes, I have personally done this shit, and yes I have rang companies and been turned down ......... well, not fifty times, because I had a job before that, but the point is this: it's all on you to fucking get shit done.
Be relentless. What the world thinks of you doesn't matter. People respect hard work and effort. Get to it. Don't be patient.
BDATA 3y ago
What you need is certifications that you can take fast. All you need is low investment - not like fucking college where you blow money and pay the loan for the rest of your life. Once you get that, try to do two things. Talk to people in that industry AKA creating networks(I don't like it but this is how things work). Your skill matters but network matter 10x more. You'll most probably get a job for sure. After 2-3 years, move to a high paying job with that experience. Never fucking stay in one job.
Bulba 3y ago
Location is everything. Where do you live? Move to a city where you can actually make money.
ImOnThePoH 3y ago
True. I live in Northern Jersey and Union trades are a big thing around here, hence my attempts to make it into one. Granted I am still waitiing on results for a local electrical union. What do you do?
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I'm pretty sure I was having sex with an M-16 in a dirt fox-hole at your age. Join the military and take a trade as your M.O.S. You'll get free housing, food, paid training, and you get to blow things up and jump from airplanes. After your first tour you'll have free college and a trade plus you can get a cheap loan to buy a house. If you save your money while enlisted you can start your own business, make a down payment on a house, etc.
ImOnThePoH 3y ago
Unfortunately I have a medical condition which disqualifies me from the service- forgot to mention that in my post. I've gone through the whole MEPS process and wasted days of my life just to be sent home empty handed. I'm still trying to finesse my way into something, just don't know what yet.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
BNSF Railroad is hiring if you can lift 80lbs. Truck drivers make $100k/yr now and lots of places give free training and signing bonuses. Look at what there are shortages of. Electricians, plumbers, mechanics, drivers, construction, etc. Dude I dare you to go show up at Justin Waller's construction company and just start working. That's basically how he got started at your age. They'll be like "Who the hell are you?". You be like "I'm the new guy! I was told to start today!". Just start busting ass and they'll eventually figure out it was all a lie but be like "Well hell let's hire him anyway, we need the help". https://www.redironconstruction.com/
TriumphoftheSwill 3y ago
You have something you are exceedingly good at. If you don't there is something you enjoy so much you can become an expert on it with some work. Find a way to make money from that. Even if it's something that doesn't seem like it can make you money there is a way to make money from it. If it's video games use your knowledge to write reviews or know enough about the industry to invest in the right companies. Even offer yourself as a video game coach. It sounds like bullshit but if you're the only one doing it people are going to look into it.
The difficulty is finding just how to make money off your talent or interest. Fortunately technology has made it very easy to market yourself to make money. I would take some time to really think about what you offer, find your interest and then get creative about how to market it.
Scorpion69_ 3y ago
think.
"what do i like?" "what do i love?" "is there something im very good at?" and then, study something based on that, or create a business of that.
if u arent good at anything or anything valuable, then go and learn new skills. ur young as fuck, lots of time to invest