I am in the newbie phase of red pill implementation. I have been told by women and men that I am attractive. I have also had stranger women coming up to me with an excuse just to flirt. This is not some humblebrag validation post but an actual query.
What I have experienced is that a lot of guys will get angry at me just for talking to girls they might have a crush on yet they won't mind if other dudes flirt with them. I have also experienced certain situations where some guys will be really friendly at times but when I talk to girls they are friends with they will gang up on me and start gaslighting me. Even when I have directly stated that I don't necessarily like those girls and they can shoot their shot if they can yet, they will still go behind my back and start rumours about me. The girls most of the times don't mind these rumours but some do. One day a group of guys will act nice and just when I start speaking to some girls in their group the next day they will act aggressive towards me as if I am their enemy. Mind you, all I am doing is talking to these girls just as friends and I literally have no ulterior motive in it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I assume they are your friends or acquaintances getting mad? They know you so they can try to control or influence you away from the girl. They are similarly mad with the other dudes but can't try to stop them without risking a fight or confrontation. They're still mad, I'd bet money on it
Crabs in a bucket
Are you being honest with yourself?
These friends sound like average frustrated chumps. They sound dramatic and not worth these issues
Scorpion69_ 1y ago
it happens to me all the time. these faggots basically get angry because they are scared shitless just thinking about talking to these girls, and u talking to the chicks make these guys jelous as fuck and reminds em of how weak they are for not taking action. they know they are below u and it irritates the shit out of em
Basic jelously. they gaslight u to feel better with themselves
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Yeah,. that's a weird thing..... friends are expected not to hit on girls they like, but strangers are fine. It's weird.
They're jealous. This is just something you gotta learn to live with...... but I'd suggest asking if they're interested in a girl. Find ones that your friends don't like.
AllBlack087 1y ago
Chads problems
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Some people take all of the air out of the room when they enter. Imagine Brad Pitt coming to your party and suddenly all the women exclusively focus on him and ignore you.