et this girl through the gym. She was checking me out, I could see from the mirrors during my sets. Feels weird cause I still think there's lot more I can do. Anyways saw her 2-3 times during my workouts and few days back while she was outside and I was heading in, we got chatting. I made her insert her number in my phone.
Later once I was back home, I shot her a text and then set up logistics. Cheap drinks 2 days later. On the day of she called me twice to confirm. Drinks were good, she mirrored my kino. She couldnt stop touching me evertime I made a joke or teased her. POst that I suggested we go to my rooftop for a nightcap. Over there she sat next to me under my arm. Stroking her arm then lower thigh.
The conversation got to hair pulling and I got a hold of her hair. She was straddling me and then when I went in for a kiss. She moved her head back and "what are you doing". Wont lie that caught me off guard. Pushed her head back and smiled but internally I was feeling off. Tried again later on but same response. Maybe she could sense it. I think I should have ploughed through but what is done is done.
I guess I'm now one of her orbiters or so she thinks. I'll accept the loss but at least I know TRP lifting has made an effect.
Planning on setting up logistics late next week if she doesnt hit me up, if she does I'll set up for 2 days later.
Learnings: Lifting helps build confidence and helps even though Im not a beast, people notice Im fitter than the average man Cold approach works He who hesitates masturbates, I could have pushed through her shit test but idk I'm a little reserved and the whole #metoo doesnt help
kiricowell 4mo ago
It's clear that there is a lot to learn about this. I think you made some good points about features age of war
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
she has a bf
redhorndog 1y ago
Im curious how did you get to this. I wouldnt have been able to pick up on it and probably guess AW or low interest but doesnt really matter since theyre in the same category.
Or is it that chicks with BFs would not kiss OP but agree to suck his dick since they hamster it as less intimate or some shit.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Yep.
Straddling and physical contact and flirting, but no kissing. So she's interested and attracted and comfortable, but won't proceed to kissing.
It's like prostitutes..... "I fuck and suck men for money, but kissing is reserved for my boyfriend".
redhorndog 1y ago
Ah figured. I remember reading a FR about some guy who said he couldnt figure out why she rejected his kisses. BUt somehow had sucked him off. His tip was to kiss the neck or ear and then escalate as usual. But I guess you'd already know this, so if OPs reading this then there's potential he can still get his dick wet with her.
IcyVoice9 1y ago
So a typical turbo attention whore. does her having a bf matter? I mean I dont care but she might.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
It matters to HER.
IcyVoice9 1y ago
Holy fuck youre a genius. She does have a bf and your line of the not kissing was great. She sucks and fucks and wants to keep meeting. LOl she's trying to branch swing. Man I was so scared of escalating again but then I remember reading somewhere where you posted if she's still there and your getting a no or hands going up/down then it doesnt always mean NO.
WHat was weird was she was ok with me massaging her pussy but not kissing. But I came on her so that was nice.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Bitches be cray cray
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah maybe you should wait to pull her hair until after your dick is in her. It's called escalation for a reason.
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Of course she could have a BF or some shit.
But it could also just be her normal LMR. If you have gone through the escalation ladder and go for a kiss at a good moment and she still doesnt go for it, that warrants a freeze-out. Simply trying again later without de-/reescalating is likely to fail.
She could also be one of those chicks that crave dominance and really want you to take her. These girls can be difficult, because pushing hard through LMR is a high risk move, but it's a lot of fun when it works. There's that moment when it clicks, where you know you figured her out.