I sent my condolensces. Im just wondering how to let her know im there for her beyond just words, without seeming too beta.

I told her to let me know if she needs anything. At what point do I lead the situation and set something up so we can hang out and i can provide comfort...? Or do I just let her "request" my comfort?? Im just not sure because some people process grief differently, some need others and some need space for a few days..?

I feel like "sorry for your loss, let me know if you need anything" is super cliche, but its all you can say. For some background she doesnt live near family, she is about 6 hours away, and I have not met her mom or dad, due to it being a relatively new relationship (4 months) and the distance thing.