this dumb broad was the one that broke up w me and i managed to take it like a champ. i’ve been on a very fat bender getting fucked up to cope but i’m slowly but surely recovering n getting back on my young king shit.
have been pulling plenty of new sluts for the roster pretty much every time i go out; my abundance mentality is thriving.
enter the mind games…
she followed my little sister on ig out the blue. asks me ab my sandwich order at a spot i introduced her to. sends me snaps of food i’ve introduced her to. tries to make me jealous posting simp ass bitchmade dudes w her. sends me selfies damn near every day either looking abnoxiously hot or looking sad as fuck. talks to me then ignores me. i’ve been doing a relatively good job of playing everything off and not biting the bait. but it’s starting to fuck with my head honestly.
i feel like she clearly isn’t over me but like she’s the one that called it quits. and at this point i feel pretty confident i can easily land a better quality girl. i lift and i’m good looking, not a weirdo at all like ik how to talk to girls. and i’m one of probably like 300-400 kids out of 10,000 in our class that will clear six figs out of college. so by all metrics i’m high value as fuck.
any tips? how long is she gonna keep pulling this shit? how do i drown her out it’s getting to the point where i’ll be w another chick and then her name pops up on my phone and i go right back to being in my feels smfh.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
You cant ignore her if she has access to being in your face all the time. Let her know nicely that it's over and she has to stop or get blocked
financehardo420 1y ago
i’m just gonna stop watching her stories for starters. let her post all her jealous bullshit and i won’t even give it the time of day. fucked up shit is like it wasn’t a bad breakup or anything; she didn’t cheat or any shit like that. wants to be friends w benefits and see that i can pull other bitches?
MrSupreme 1y ago
Cut off as much communication from her as possible,also let her know quite formally that you're done with her and you don't want her reaching up to you for anything, be lethal with this
financehardo420 1y ago
i haven’t initiated contact at all and when i do reply to her i make it a point to be short as fuck or just take my sweet time replying. i haven’t reached the point of telling her she’s upsetting me; i don’t even want to give her the satisfaction. i want her to live w/ the regret of knowing she just ripped up a winning lottery ticket
MrSupreme 1y ago
I get it but dude, you're still gaming her and by doing so going against your wish to be left alone
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Daddy's whipping out the belt...
She dumped you because you simped, can't handle your alcohol, and fired off a gun in your house. Like I've said before: you're your own worst enemy. She's probably just checking to see if you've handled your shit and would be worthwhile getting with again. But you're not. You're a blowhard with a big fat head about your money and looks. You're out going on benders getting fucked up, endlessly sleeping with hoes you care nothing about. Kinda reminds me of my younger self, hehe. You won't get her off your mind until you find someone better or she hits the wall.
financehardo420 1y ago
fuck lol this hits deep. appreciate the wake up call; i gotta cut this shit out and get back on the grind and focus on becoming really skilled at my chosen profession. honestly i stopped drinking shortly after turning 21 bc i started getting seizures. it apparently went away bc i haven’t had a seizure since. thanks honest bro. should i just go monk mode this summer?
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