I knew a girl who had an older male employer. She was like 27 and the employer was 50 I think. Her employer would always comment some beta sounding shit, like a childish nickname (think for example if her name was Jennifer and he called her Jenners). Once the employer left that job he started commenting on her stuff calling her beautiful and stunning and gorgeous and stuff and one time he posted like three separate comments like this on one picture with a ton of hearts and in another comment on the same picture said said “love you!” with a heart. She replied “love ya!” Or “love ya too!” Or something. I thought the “love ya” was her deferring and not expressing the same excitement because she wasn’t and hadn’t ever been attracted to him.
I thought he was just a perverted simp because he’s not attractive but today I saw a post from a girl I know fucked some fat guy at some point, and the fat guy posted some friendly inspirational message and said “Love you!” At some point and the girl responded to his long message with “I love ya!” And three hearts. I know for a fact that that girl fucked that guy. I mean that guy was that girl’s age unlike the scenario with the first girl, but the point is I wonder if all these whores are just fucking their bosses or any ugly fuck that’s around them enough. Neither of these guys are attractive. Maybe they’re somewhat alpha to an extent but not really “alpha”, more like not exactly beta.
I don’t care about either of these two girls but I’m curious.
goodmansaysfuckyou 1y ago
Some do, some don't. It really depends on the girl/woman, the situation, and what she hopes to get out of it.
I know of many women who are in their current jobs solely because of who they allowed to fuck them and then used that encounter as leverage for preferential treatment. It happens in government circles all the time. It happens in private industry all the time. It happens in the fucking PTA at your local schools all the time.
Do you really believe that the current Vice President is in her position because of her stellar fiscal prowess, excellent diplomacy skills, her ability to connect with the people, or her ability to intelligently interact with others?
Shit happens for more reasons than any of us can ever really comprehend, but the one certainty is that it only happens when a woman has something to gain by it (even if that is just her working through her daddy kink).
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goodmansaysfuckyou 1y ago
Nope. Just means that she is working an angle. Could be fucking or just flirting to get what she wants. He'll, she could actually be attracted to him. Who knows.
Unless one of them is your girl then it doesn't matter. All you need to know is to stay clear if they set their sights on you. Otherwise, fuck it drive on.
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KeyInterest 1y ago
Women see sex as their last resort after all other manipulation tactics fail. They can't manipulate an alpha, so that's why they must have sex with him to get his attention.
I think you are underestimating how much a woman can get out of a bluepilled man in a position of power just by flirting.
You wouldn't believe how hard the average man will simp for a girl just by getting these mixed signals on social media. It's more likely that these girls are just leveraging their SMV to get raises and promotions. They don't need to go all the way with these guys to manipulate them.
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Absolutely everyone...
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
I dont know if it's retarded, but it's certainly quite irrelevant. It's like trying to understand women by asking the wrong questions. It's not wrong to ask, but reading quality content is a lot better usage of your time than asking hypotheticals here.
IMO your posts consistently show a lack of nuanced thinking; everything's very black and white, which is not helpful in any sense. You dont get the correct answer, and it doesnt help your conflicting thoughts. I think it's probably normal during unplugging and that you will overcome it. Primarily by accepting that you simply cant figure everything out.
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
That's just proving my point... You assumed there were two options with two outcomes. When in reality it was a spectrum where the most likely answer lies somewhere inbetween.
In your example it's safe to assume that "i'll let you know" equals a lie the overwhelming majority of the time.
Going from assuming it's either a 100% or a 0% chance, to assuming a nuanced position like a 80/20 distribution makes a world of difference in the long run.
When you then come across new info e.g. new sources of experience like guys on this forum, articles, etc, you shift your assumed distribution on that topic by just a bit (based on source credibility). Never from 100 to 0 or the other way.
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
I was just demonstrating, not using it as a literal example.
In these scenario's where girls wont commit but tell you "i'll let you know", they are not consciously lying at all. It's just an ambiguous message. Most of the time it simply means "not right now, i will let you know if i feel like it at another time", and not "im down later, im gonna let you know when im free".
We all know from experience that if they give you that line they're not very interested at all, and it should be regarded as a No unless it's followed up with more investment. Again, the likelihood of her actually getting back to you varies based on a bunch of factors, mainly your SMV compared to hers.
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Dont get hung up on small things like that. If i posted every little detail of my life the bloops would be calling me a creep too for the x amount of times ive acted uncalibrated, too directly etc. As long as you make adjustments and play it safe, you're cool.
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Obviously there are men who abuse their position of power to extract sex from women. Obviously there are women who abuse their looks to get jobs, promotions, etc. Obviously women are fucking all the same men while the other 80% of men get nothing. Just assume the worst in people until proven otherwise.
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
Probably not. I think you're overthinking it.
Don't project your insecurities on their situation and other people. It's beta-esque to sit there and say "I can't believe she hooked up with him" or "I know they hooked up, I just know it!". You're just to justify your lack of commitment to bettering yourself and rationalizing your life situation (whatever that may be). These women aren't your love interests. They're just that, girls - let them whore themselves out if they are. Worry about spinning your plates and focus on yourself and everything will work in your benefit. What I've said might be harsh but I'd rather give it to your straight then not at all.
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HopelessRomantic 1y ago
The girl fucking the fat guy is not your issue or problem - it shouldn't affect you, who cares?
Hit the gym, take up some hobbies and things for YOURSELF - don't fixate on other peoples problems or dilemmas, worry about clearing your life of any and being a positive influence on yourself and your mind.
All the best.
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HopelessRomantic 1y ago
A simple "Love ya!
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HopelessRomantic 1y ago
People commonly say "Love ya" as a term of endearment without the association of sexual intimacy.
elevengames 1y ago
You getting very deep. It is equal to asking why have I failed at job interview. You might get some tips but ppl will advise you on what you communicate, but if you'd see it in first place you'd not ask most likely.
There is way for you to try.
Record the shit out of yourself.
Voice and video - look at yourself.
Otherwise get a winger-spotter.