The most “Alpha” people I’ve met in my life seem to be straight retarded.
I used to work with this guy who was for sure a pussy slayer but the guy was fucking stupid. Man got in trouble for some stupid shit, instead of just closing his mouth and moving along he started telling the boss how it “really is”. He got fired and walked out with his head high. I can’t help but emotionally feel respect, but on the other hand it is such a well paying easy job (albeit with some bullshit management). Now he works at a much worse job for half the wage.
Or these guys are ready to fight any time. Other pussy slayer buddy couldn’t keep his mouth surrounded by a 3 on 1. Its like he has balls, but at the end of the day he just got his shit kicked in and could have ended much much worse.
Or just people skills. They just say whatever they think freely with no regards to how it makes others feel “speak the truth” so to say. Like sure that shows balls but why make enemies when you could make friends instead. Like just be nice.
And they’re selfish as fuck too. They only do exactly what benefits them in the moment as if they have no concept of “hey my small sacrifice could really help this guy and maybe in the future he’ll help me back”.
Every alpha thing that seems to be respectable just seems like a fucking retarded move to me. Its like they have no sense of consequence. Like they don’t think about the future. They live life as if every risk will pay off. As if they are bulletproof. As if nothing can touch them. As if they never have anything to lose.
Or even in highschool, the “bad boys”. The guys who where getting the most pussy where always doing stupid shit. Weed in their backpack knowing all it takes is one pissed teacher (catholic super strict school) to get a criminal record. Or wreaking havoc on the weekends getting drunk making a mess and shit at the school yard.
Even most prisoners are “alpha”, but they’re all in prison.
Am I misunderstanding the situation?
It really seems like the alpha is not actually well suited to survive the world. Like they don’t understand that sometimes you have to be the bitch and follow the rules.
KeyInterest 1y ago
You're basically describing the dark triad ( narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy ). Women are naturally attracted to dark triad traits so that's why these guys are getting so much pussy.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
There are retarded alphas, and retarded betas.
There are intelligent alphas, and intelligent betas.
There are honourable alphas, and honourable betas.
There are kind alphas, and kind betas.
There are evil alphas, and evil betas.
There are selfish alphas, and selfish betas.
You probably catch my drift by now.
P.S. Being "nice" is not the same as being "kind". Sometimes, the kind thing to do is not to be so nice. "Nice" is often a form of manipulation and/or dishonesty.
Read The Rational Male + No More Mr. Nice Guy for all things "alpha", "beta" and "nice".
Scorpion69_ 1y ago
Yep.
OP calling alphas in general "retards" is basically him coping for some subconscious inferiority complex he must have.
Alpha and beta are simply states of mind. People are very varied
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
I wouldn't say retarded - but maybe stupid. Usually Alphas of the kind that you're referring to don't give a fuck and will not give a fuck. Women are naturally drawn to these bad boys because of that, but at the end of the day there likely will be no long term stability so women use guys like these for their sexual pleasure and filling voids of intimacy. Women are drawn to testosterone - so it's only natural that these fighting, loud-mouthed and aggressive guys are what they seek, because they're willing to take what they want and they exude confidence, arrogance and cockiness doing so. Being Alpha is having confidence, but having confidence enough in yourself to be successful in your life and facing your fears. Maybe he's got something planned in the bag and this is a minor setback, who knows?
I wouldn't read into it too much - everyone goes up and down in life, focus on yourself and doing what you need to do to better yourself and build confidence. Go to the gym, read a book, text an old friend and catch up. Being positive in YOUR mind and having positive masculine energy goes a long way.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
You basically just described the effects of healthy testosterone levels. Something I had never experienced until I got TRT.
SheLarror1234 1y ago
This post is way to vague.
Its different types of intelligence. Not everything is knowledge and mental. Social intelligence, for example may be what your referring to when it comes to "people skills". What if the alpha knew about masculine and feminine dynamics, and both roles, and intently is dickheadish because he reaps from being the aotg? Someone who is not aware of primal intelligence, may see the guy as short-tempered and an idiot for theoretically risking his life for arguments and nonsense. And maybe he is, but obviously its pros and cons to his behavior. Even if that pro is simply to build a consciousness of self respect or a no tolerance and disagreeability to bullshit.
Many reasons why alphas may act the way they act. But the textbook alpha is more of a deception than anything. They probably are more dumb alphas than i am giving credit in this post. And i thought id throw this out here, but women since eve are more attracted to a man they can control but at the same time is strong. Their desire for men to control him, but the men will rule over her. Genesis 3:16. They are sexually attracted to dumb goofy idiots that are both powerful and dominant. This is the foundation of female attraction in modern times too. Try to be a intellectual smartass while trying to court a female if you don't believe me. The optimal dynamic that female truly desire is this combination of dumb or ignorant but powerful/complex. Like how a lot of top tier men make everything look "easy"/cool/smooth etc. Even the basis of passing shit tests is this concept.
Its also really difficult to calculate ones intelligence just based on what you observe them doing. You never really know another's mental pattern on WHY their doing it. Some people also may do the moraly precise thing, instead of the obvious smarter thing to do. Like for example, how the guy quit his job by telling his boss off.