So I have this plate im spinning since a few weeks, shes kinda nice and fun when we are together, i get a lot of possitive reactions from her. But when we are apart shes giving me mixed signals by text, like writting me and sending me pictures of her daily life, then if I reply fast she goes cold, if I dont reply she gets more invested.
Today after ignoring her complety for a day or so. She send me "I miss you", i tried to schedule with her after that but she was again being ambiguous about going out. I got pissed and told her "send me a message when you decide what do you want" and then she started to talk me about her mental issued and hows shes depresssed and unstable with ups and downs. Should I ignore o or just tell her " You're in charge of your own happiness and mood, the most I can do you is giving you a good time. Good luck"
PD: I know mental issues = no ltr
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
Ignore, ur not her bestie bro.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
so do that.
urgh, hate that.
Just say "that sucks", ignore the details, wait 5 minutes, suggest ice cream.
Hanscheezburger 2y ago
She doesn't have mental issues like depression or bpd mate. Most of the time they use that as an excuse.
I had a plate that said she was suicidal, posted that on instagram and shit. It reminds me of the 2000s when being emo was somehow sexy.
How do I know she isn't suicidal? Her posting that on instagram for likes and her cuts being shallow and horizontal. My friend (male) tried to commit suicide, big raised scar running vertically on his wrist that he always tried to hide. Never told anyone that he was depressed
I would pretend that you care a little bit. "That's too bad. Come over when you want me to make you feel better". Then ignore her. These types feed off our attention like a drug addict. Give them some once in a while and they'd be hooked