Hey guys, need a group opinion on photos to use for tinder.
I've noticed the caliber of women I sleep with in real life and girls I match with on tinder are not even close. Can pull 7-8s consistently but hardly ever go beyond a match on tinder.
I dont take a lot of pics but can you guys pic 3-5 of the best photos in terms of pure attractiveness?
Critiques welcome as well
Thanks fellas
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
Why bother? You're pulling 8s in real life. The thing about Tinder is it's a complete waste of time for 95% of men. Whether it's women flaking on dates, women seeking attention, or whatever. In person you can see if they're fat and attractive and line up a date all in a few minutes. Your odds in person are way higher than on any dating app.
Jocbro 4y ago
I do agree - however, I'm doing a half "Monk Mode".
Not going out on weekends anymore - really focusing on work/physique so I'd like to passively meet women
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I don't think attractive women actually work or do anything other than shop and go to salons. These are known as "sponsored" women. You can find them on the sugar daddy sites like seeking arrangement. Tinder is all fat chicks and single moms or attention whores. I've heard instagram is the new top dating site.
You have to think of these apps as gossip machines for chicks. In that respect, you are a brand and what you're putting out there is brand management. So now you need professional photos and you use tinder to funnel chicks to your instagram. They're looking to see if you're successful, have social proof, and preselection. They have an entire planet of men to choose from. They can be flown out to Miami by celebrities with the click of a button. It's a dating arms race with more and more women chasing fewer and fewer men.
Personally, I think it's time to stop playing this game. Let's play a new game. How about we men source women globally? The fact that I'm from the US gives me an image of success and social proof to many women around the world. I'm taller than most guys in Asia. Asian women prefer white guys so my SMV is much higher there. I'm exotic with blue eyes. I can easily pull an 18yr old virgin HB10. Or how about Eastern Europe? Maybe a blonde with blue eyes?
Edit: Anyway, you might get better advice from people with more experience in these dating apps. I'm too busy taking viagra and soaking my dick in tight Javanese Muslim pussy for hours every day.
Kloi 4y ago
Coming from someone who has been paid to shoot photography none of them really stand out.
As for you entering a half monk mode period; are you approaching women in your daily spots like pumping gas, grocery shopping, at the gym (I personally don't here)?
Jocbro 4y ago
I dont cold approach ever really.
Dont grocery shop (online pick up), havent seen chicks pumping gas and i dont shit where I eat so to speak so no gym approach.
Not to say I wont cold approach - I really dont encounter attractive girls throughout the day except the gym tbh
Big-Dan 4y ago
Not the answer you're looking for but most guys are better off just running social circle game or cold approach. I've never used OLD but one of my best looking friends literally has over 500 matches and even with solid text game, he's only banged like 3 girls from it. Nowadays even the most average girls have so many options from so many different channels that most the chicks on tinder are just there for validation or are unlikely to choose you to hookup with out of the 100s of matches they have
My personal opinion is that Tinder is a waste of time for 95% of men and is terrible for self-confidence. You're likely to spend hella time on Tinder, messaging girls and loading up on easy dopamine when you're much better off hitting bars/clubs or leveling yourself up IRL. Just my 2ยข, good luck bro
Jocbro 4y ago
Thanks bro. That has been my experience as well. I have 750 matches at the moment but they are generally very low quality and ive probably banged 5-6 chicks from OLD.
I need to cold approach more as the girls I meet at the bar are trash
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SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
I have this same issue it is simply good product bad marketing.