So we all know we should next low interest girls, but what about girls with bfs. I am in a situation where I have a good public job, and a lot of other family problems outside of women, that I am dealing with. I simply don’t have the time to put in that extra effort to game girls that are taken. What’s TRP opinion on this?
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RedPill115 2y ago
The problem is, the hottest girls are never single One day they're dating one guy. Month later they're dating someone else.
It's a bit of a game itself - is she looking to move on because she's nuts...or because her relationship has run it's course and she's going to be dating someone else next month anyways?
I've dumbly been like "oh she has a boyfriend leave that alone" then a month later she's dating someone else anyways.
STAYShredded 2y ago
NGL, I'd recommend doing it for shits and giggles... its kinda fun, a new challenge, makes u feel like a big dog once u fuck them and also just re-implies solid red-pilled understanding.
berttbarnes94 2y ago
You said you don’t have time to game girls that are taken so why are you asking this.
But idk, if a woman is giving you access to her energy while she has a boyfriend then why not?
helpfulguy22 2y ago
Like just asking what you would do if you were in my situation
berttbarnes94 2y ago
You should reread your post. It says you don’t have time to pursue women with bf’s. Nor did you even mention whether you have access to women with boyfriends. So the answer if I was you and I didn’t have time to pursue a woman with a bf and I have family problems, why would I try to pursue a woman with a boyfriend? I simply wouldn’t
helpfulguy22 2y ago
Haha I meant like would you try to make the time to put in the effort, but I get what you are saying thank you!
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Perfect. Abundance mentality and a realistic outlook.
Blingo123 2y ago
From my experience if a girl likes you enough, she’ll forgot about her boyfriend the night you two meet and won’t think twice.
If she perceived you were higher value then her boyfriend, she’d be the one to “put in that extra effort”
Tooktheredpill 2y ago
Go ahead if you’re willing to take the risk of drama, or worse, possibly taking a permanent dirt nap.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
It's called a booty call. Being a booty call, for women, is the equivalent of being friend-zoned for men. I suppose if you take it to the next level of cucking a woman it would be where she is in an open relationship with a beta and you provide the booty calls. Personally, I'd rather just pay a prostitute and then I know what I'm getting up front: a woman that is getting fucked by other men and she uses them for money.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
You run the risk of the guy losing his shit and hunting you down
You also run the risk of her saying it was rape when she gets caught
Are you out of options to be asking this?
helpfulguy22 2y ago
This was the answer I was kind of looking for haha, if it’s worth risking my life. Guess not, I will next this one. I’m not out of options, she was just hot af and gave me her number too. But she is also playing hard to get at the same time.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Probably just milking you for the attention that her bf won't or can't give her. If she's hard to get it's probably because she isn't looking at you as a prospect at all, just using and abusing your attention
Edit: and yeah, taken girls are Russian roulette. You're spinning the chamber to either get boned by her or her bf. Some chambers are blank, some are loaded. You wouldn't know which is which till it plays out
Hanscheezburger 2y ago