This plate just came back after a failed branch swing, (she got played by the dude lmao) I just want sex tbh, and I’m seeing other girls so no big deal. how would you respond if at all, (last few months with her she was flaky, bad behavior all that)
yo j wondering what u consider us as bc the way we straight up don’t speak anymore like i been going thru sum mad shit lately but still and my friends told me today they found ur new tinder acc and, i’m not dumb if you’ve been talkin to other bitches u can j straight up say it at this point bc you’ve been secretly using that app like the entire time we’ve been together but anyways idk i feel like you kinda treated me shitty a lot of the time so fuck u for that but maybe i’m j projecting onto u rn either way ig i’m j wondering wtf we doin
OPPTRP 2y ago
I had this same issue with a FWB would like some advice cos always forget how to post. She invited me over when I was already in the area and when I got there I asked her what happened to her plans and then she told me she had her plans cancelled with a date and I made my excuses and left.
Saw this as her treating me as second option but she tried saying it wasn’t that way and if I was around she would have made plans with me in the first place which is cap
sackajaweuh 2y ago
Yeah always listen to her actions not her words
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Cool. She seems retarded.
I would... not care. If you want sex with her she seems like she would be very easy to trick.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
yeah, she's a FWB, no biggie
This is an issue that needs addressing. You need to tell her what's expected and maintain that boundary.
Is this you quoting what she said to you? Kinda weird to not introduce it as such.
This is the "what are we" talk, see my blog post on "handling the talk: how to talk back".
Also, she sounds fucking retarded.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
soft next is one way to set boundaries.
koedeloe123 2y ago
It depends. If the plate has always been respectful, and just sends me a simple text like 'Hey I met someone else, it's getting kind of serious, so maybe it's better if we stop". I just answer "Alright, no problem, good luck with your relationship". No hard feelings, whatsoever. I had many girls who came back once their LTR didn't work out.
But I had one plate who did the same as your girl. Started flaking, bad behavior, etc... Just hard nexted her. Actually saw her with some fat dude 3 weeks ago at a club. She didn't see me, luckily. If she ever came back, I'd just ignore her tbh. You should never reward bad behavior.
Tooktheredpill 2y ago
Let her ALWAYS be the one to contact you and never go anywhere with her. She comes over every time, you fuck, then she leaves. She disrespected your time so you’re only going to spend the time and energy that it takes to go from your couch to your front door to let her in. If she doesn’t like it, then she can walk.
Take care.