Not race baiting. I'm a white guy, and I constantly see online / hear from my nonwhite friends how easy I have it. Yet I only manage to get laid like once a month from playing the numbers game. What gives?
One of my theories is that since I live in a very white US state (more than 90%), it's not an advantage compared to everyone else. If I moved to a more diverse area I might notice more attention from women.
whytehorse2021 about a year ago
If you want to see life on easy mode marry a brown chick and crank out a bunch of babies. You'll get $600/mo for food, free car seats, free gas card, free medical, dental, and therapy, free formula, free diapers, $25 gift cards for walmart, care packages with shampoo/toilet paper/etc, food banks, vouchers at the farmer's market, free laptop, free certification training, rent assistance, free obama phone, stimulus checks, awards for your kids for showing up to school, and the list goes on.
placer about a year ago
There is in Latin America (especially Peru, but also Mexico, Columbia, Brazil, Central America, and Venezuela if you can handle the risk), Southeast Asia (especially Thailand and the Philippines), and (from what I heard) Africa a “White God” factor.
This means, if a white man sets foot in one of those countries, he will get a significant advantage, because girls in those countries consider white men to have a higher social economic status than men of other races.
For White newcomers to game, super-easy mode is the Philippines, Thailand, and Peru. Pick whether you want an Asian girl or a Latina. For people who want Ebony, pretty much all of sub-Saharan Africa appears to be really easy.
Now, staying in the US, being White doesn’t have the same advantage.Those chicas from Latin America who speak Spanish but were raised in the US will usually only get together with another Chicano to “preserve the race” (the idea of race preservation isn’t only something among “white supremacists”, but I digress). There is a bit of an advantage with Black women, especially in the south, but not as pronounced as being in Africa (or Latin America, or Southeast Asia).
As an aside, becoming fluent in the local language helps a lot with game. Even though the woman I settled down and married is fluent in English, the fact that I spoke to her in Spanish as a Gringo while we were dating was a big DHV (display of higher value) in her book.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a year ago
I doubt it’s that much different. All these girls are listening to trap music, which is mostly made by minorities. The media fools minorities into thinking they’ve got a disadvantage in everything, but I guarantee you a girl who listens to DaBaby is not discriminating based on race.
Vermillion-Rx about a year ago
People statistically generally prefer to date others that look like them. White women prefer white guys, black women prefer black men and so on. Some people prefer other races, but it's an exception, not a rule.
Depending on the country, whites make up a very high percentage of the population (USA 68%) so naturally a lot of non-white women will pursue white men purely because of the abundance of viable partners who just happen to be white, not BECAUSE they are white
Other races also tend to have lower socio-economic status (SES), on average except for Asians, which usually outscore whites on SES but for whatever usually have lower SMV (I rarely see Asians who look like Chads).
So the statical likelihood that a high base SMV black or Hispanic guy has similar SES to a white guy with comparable base SMV is statistically less likely. That will matter if a woman highly values both SMV and SES and cannot find a same-race partner with both.
Statistically, there are going to be more high SMV white guys who also have good SES as well,, even though there are a lot of high SMV black and Hispanic men to go around
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when it comes to foreign countries, whites have an advantage, not because being white is attractive, but because white foreigners come from countries with far higher SES than the non-majority white countries. Has nothing to do with race, has almost everything to do with status
A white dude with even average SES from Europe or America will just happen to tower over a lot of native citizens in terms luxury, simply because a lot of the natives can't otherwise dream of the kind of life they could have with a Westerner.
Long story short, being white isn't inherently an advantage, it has to do with a lot of other factors. That's why it's not doing you any favors by virtue of just being white. Sounds SMV related
RedPill115 about a year ago
No, white women are the only group with an out-group bias - they prefer non-white men.
Non-white women prefer to date people who look like them.
Vermillion-Rx about a year ago
Where is this cited? I don't even see that out-group preferences pan out in the real world. The vast majority of white women I observe on dates have white partners, where is it cited otherwise?
Freyzon about a year ago
Can you link me the source of this? Sounds contrary to what I have heard on the subject.
RedPill115 about a year ago
G***dammit it, I've read this a bazillion times, but now I can't find it again
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mattyanon about a year ago
This is because of the myth of white privelege and where our victim culture has gotten us.
Women think men have it easy because of relentless "women are victims" shit.
Blacks think whites have it easy because of relentless "blacks are victims" shit.
"Whites have it easy" is racism and ignores the billions of stories of hardship experienced by white people. Ignore that shit, it's not worth your time.
Nope.
What you'd notice is that our victim culture has bred a generation of victims. "It's not my fault I can't get girls, its because of muh skin colour".
RedPill115 about a year ago
I started to notice that any racial group democrats target with the racial rhetoric always seems to end up worse off don't they?
Median Household Income, by race
135,000 - Jewish Americans
126,705 - Indian Americans
85,989 - Russian Americans
85,424 - Chinese Americans
76,665 - Canadian Americans
65,777 - White Americans
63,179 - Median American Household Income
46,073 - African Americans
38,000 - Mexican Americans
49,963 to 28,745 - Native Americans
Groups in bold are the groups liberals have targetted in the last couple of decades.
Groups not in bold are the groups that are doing very well financially.
And you know who's at the top of the suicide list? White men, 3x higher than any other sizeable population group.
mattyanon about a year ago
Yep. Caused by the endless "white privelege" and "male privelege" guilt that white men uniquely have to suffer through.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a year ago
Not to mention, getting girls in a diverse place = the scripts being flipped, meaning black people and other minorities could get more women than him in his current area, if he’s hypothesizing that scarcity (uniqueness) is what causes whites to have better luck in dating. Really makes no sense given his black friends should be slaying pussy in his area if his theory was correct. Would take other factors for this to make sense. I’d argue a white guy in the ghetto would have a much tougher time getting a black girl than a black guy in any town getting a white girl, so I don’t want to hear any claims of racism towards black people being the issue.
NeoSpartan about a year ago
Nah I've gotten black girls. It's actually easier. Live in the suburbs tho. Wouldn't fuck with the hoodrat ones.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a year ago
Yeah I’m talking about the hood rat ones. There’s probably a lot of resistance towards whites in extremely ghetto neighborhoods.
NeoSpartan about a year ago
Actually, one of the ones I dated didn't know what freckles were lol. She also did that thing were they take on white speech patterns but revert back to urban vernacular when stressed, so I think you're probably wrong about that.
User4566 about a year ago
To be honest, I feel like black guys from the 'hood have an advantage because the media portrays them to be ruthless alpha male criminals. Every girl I know listens to black music and are attracted to black guys who look like rappers which is the new "bad boy". Porn also makes them out to be sex gods and apparently every black guy has a massive BBC. Even if it's just a myth, people (especially young women) are too stupid to realize this. Also, I see a lot of "white guilt". Some middle-eastern guy I know at my community college was lecturing me how white people are responsible for all the world's problems.
How ironic.
Being white has it's advantages for sure, but some whites have it tough. If people actually paid attention in their American History classes, they would know that not every kind of white person was treated as such. Irish/Italian Immigrants were known as "white niggers" when they first arrived in the early 1900s. Clearly Black Americans had it worse than them, but to say being white in America is easy CAN be BULLSHIT. They completely forget about the rural Americans living in trailers and living off of social security checks.
Now most news outlets are saying that Kyle Rittenhouse got away with "mUrDeRiNg iNnOcEnT pEoPlE bEcAuSE hE's W H I T E".
I fucking digress lmao wow.
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Tooktheredpill about a year ago
All I know is someone forgot to issue me my white privilege card when I was born because as a kid, I spent a lot of time hungry and homeless.
RedPill115 about a year ago
No.
White women are the only women who have an outgroup bias - the only group of women who prefer to date men who are not of their same race.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a year ago
I don’t know if I’d say they “prefer” that, because most of them still marry within their (our) race, but most will definitely fuck a couple black guys at least.
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