I just got off 3 weeks of antibiotics from fucking a tinder hoe (chlamydia). The injection plus two pills didn't work so I had to go on 14days of doxy plus 4pills.
My plate and I stopped seeing each other cause she caught feelings and honestly after this whole std scare I am so turned off from sleeping around. I just want to find something worth while.
Whats the point of getting to know these people sharing intimacy and then never seeing them again? It's honestly draining and time consuming.
Last year I broke up with my fiance and its just been a series of situationships and fuck buddies. I am starting to feel lonely. I have health problems that makes it hard for me to do sports n shit where I can meet other cool dudes to network with. Most of my friends live in a city nearby and are settling down so i dont go out with them to chop girls.
Honestly dont know what to do, feeling depressed. Sometimes I feel so low I wish I never left my fiance, even if she was bad for me.
What can I do on a weekly basis to improve my romantic life. I have one wing man but he's out of town for the next 5 weeks. What do you guys do / have done???
Pedal_Moonpower 2y ago
You don't wanna go out and slay but you wait for wingman to go and slay.
Since it is RedPill forum I can ask first: do you lift and if you can't how much time did you spend to finding activity you can do.
I don't think anyone will pat you on back here. Only option is to be 100% honest get criticism, get angry, write it down and set up new account.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Tinder is a gold-mine of trashy non-committal women. If you tap a tinder hoe, you have to do so with the expectation that she probably won't stick around. Some tinder girls come back for more but you can't expect it, they have too many options to consider any one guy
You don't have to be an athletic Chad to get women (though it would help). Meet women elsewhere, these apps are huge ego boosts for these hoes.
"What can I do on a weekly basis to improve my romantic life." Keep improving YOU. The rest will follow
NeoSpartan 2y ago
I've been looking for wife material on hinge. It's going pretty well I think. There's not really any hoes on there. I don't much like hoes. Downside is you have to wait for sex.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Downside is: MARRIAGE.
This is fucking terrible advice. Marriage is a sexual and financial deathtrap.
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NeoSpartan 2y ago
omg go away you weirdo, go bother some desperate greencard girls with promises of US citizenship.
ogrilla99 2y ago
Here's a harsh but genuine question to ask yourself: why is your life so shitty that the absence of a woman in it makes you feel depressed?
Don't get me wrong. I love women as well, and a good one immeasurably improves a guy's life. But you should have a full life that gives you satisfaction even if a girl is not in it.
Most men, even successful Chads and Alpha Bucks, go through long periods without women. It's not uncommon to have dry spells that last months to years. The only way to survive those times is to have a life that, while it could be improved with a woman in it, doesn't require a woman to be a happy and fulfilling life.
So forget about the state of your love life for one second. Why are you depressed about the rest of your life? Your friends are in a different city? So what? Unless you're on a farm, there are other people around. Find some people to hang out with. Can't do sports? That's not the only thing that cool dudes do. Go to a sports bar during a big football game and cheer on the local team. You'll be making friends with other fans in no time. Do you work? Are there any good guys there? Get a drink with them after work. The #metoo movement doesn't apply to asking a few guys at work to grab a drink.
As a side benefit, as you build a better, more fun, more satisfying life, more women will want to be a part of it. And building up a good social network will lead to IRL introductions to much better girls than you can get off of tinder.
You sound a lot like a hot girl who defines her whole life and self worth by the guy she's dating, which is why she becomes depressed when she's single, and absolutely suicidal when she can no longer attract high status guys. And if you continue down this path, you'll make the same mistakes they do, like going back to a fiancee who you already know is bad for you, just because you can't stand to be by yourself for a whole 3 weeks.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Be very very wary of "something worthwhile". Men are prone to invest in relationships, women are psychologically geared to exploiting this fact about male sexuality. There is no relationship equity. There are great relationships, but "worthwhile" is a trap.
Right. I highly recommend multiple long term relationships.
You're much, much better off alone than in the wrong relationship.
What's your plan for meeting women?
koedeloe123 2y ago
Nothing better than going out solo, enjoying your own company and doing whatever the fuck you want. I used to count on my friends to have a good time, but most of them would rather sit at home with their girlfriend 24/7, and become boring.
Started going out solo, met loads of girls/plates this way. Fuck online dating apps, just go out and have fun. At the start it might be weird, but once you get used to it, it's really fun. Sometimes I even prefer going out by myself.
As for spinning plates, I know it gets boring, since you don't care about them. Just keep doing your thing, have fun, properly vet the girls, and see where things go.
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PSYCHOKILLA 2y ago
watch porn, meditate on it