LTR of 6 months ghosting me, we had plans to meet on Sunday and then she said how she wouldn’t be able to meet until “later that night”. I asked her what time and she said “no idea” and then I asked if I should come or not the next day and she said “I’ll let you know” I left the message on read and she never responded and it’s been a full day.
She then posted on her story the next day “you glow differently when you have good people in your life with good intentions”
I’m suspecting a branch swing and have had a feeling in my gut recently, after she removed me from her private story and changed her phone Lock Screen. She also 3 weeks ago texting me saying “we need to talk” but I just replied with “about what” which she never answered, and I just acted oblivious then hit her up to hangout to which she agreed (mistake I know) it was an effort by me to show that I cared, but looking back I feel like it made me look weak.
It doesn’t make sense because last week she saying how she hates leaving me after we hangout and hugged me for 5 minutes straight.
She was always very submissive in the past and even obsessed telling me I was the most attractive guy she had seen in person. I was also the first guy she had been with but a lot of the time I was cold and distant (Majority of the time I only showed physical affection) and she even suspected I was cheating on her a few times (to be fair I was)
Im planning on just nexting her as I don’t want to give her the satisfaction of seeing me chase after her and I already imagine she has a replacement ready. Her friends and mother also dislike me very much and tell her I treat her poorly and everything. I feel like it could be a win-win for her in the aspect that if I never text her it will show her I never cared which will make her feel like her decision is right, but if I do she’ll get validation that I still want her. Tbh I do want to salvedge the relationship because of how good she treated me but I don’t think it’s possible Thoughts?
Should I ghost, or break things off?
Guyandtheroadtovictory 2y ago
You answered it for yourself already.
GTFO and focus on yourself, what makes you happy, valuable - now it seems that you are running after her, but how women will respect you, see as a man, a leader if you run after her? If someone punched you in a face, would you think how that someone told you a compliment about your beautiful shoes?
LivinguntilDeath 2y ago
I don't even need to read this shit to know that you have a strong case of onetis.
If this was any other website I'd laugh you out and call you a beta but since your on RP, DIVERSIFY say it with me DIVERSIFY. If you had 5 plates and one of them got told they deserve "better" and start with holding attention then you could go to the 4 others.
Life is a game, with 1 chance. If you ever been on a video game or the stock market, the most reliable strategy is to DIVERSIFY.
Economics govern social life as much as they do national economy's. High choices = lower prices. Low choices = Higher price. Even the most useless of shiny rocks (diamonds) can cost you a leg and a half due to high demand.
sackajaweuh 2y ago
Yeah you’re right
I do have plenty of other girls on the side but it just sucks realizing you’ve taken something for granted
pfeilmacher 2y ago
Break things off? Dude, things are already off with you and her. But it's certainly on with Chad Thundercock.
Delete her shit and don't let her come crawling back when Chad and Tyrone are done with her.
You need to read the sidebar.
hannulv 2y ago
LTR is 5+ years
Weird ass cringey desperation fills the air as I read this. What are you going to do about you? At this point who gives a fuck about her? You need to become something better than you are.
You are weak. You are desperate for her. You wanted her so bad that you lied and promised to be exclusive with her just so she would like you. Instead of being an authentic desirable man, who women are willing to share, you were a lying manipulative weasel, dubconning her into sex. Why didn't you just tell her you're the heir to a great fortune and you can't imagine a life without her? If you're going the con artist route, go all in.
Seriously Dude, you de-virginized her, cheated on her, and the most attractive guy she's ever met and you can't figure out why she hugged you a long time? Do you know anything about girls at all? It was your fault for creating an exclusive relationship and then rubbing it in her face that you were cheating. Don't be exclusive with girls if you're not going to be exclusive. It turns you into the world's biggest asshole.
Why is this what you are worried about? You should be worried about how you're going to become a man that men want to be and women want to fuck. Anyone who reads this is going to say nope on both counts.
Text her this and then never again: 'I like you, bae. I should have never been exclusive with you because I'm not all about that, but I'm still willing to let you be my side bitch. XXXO'
johnnysmallseed 2y ago
I read through half of this. You're telling me you can't see where you went wrong? Read your own story. You are asking permission to see her in all your words. Always decide what to do and where to go. If she cancels on you then next her.
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