can't get my dick up? fucked a plate raw yesterday (she's on the pill) and my dick wouldn't get hard, i've been with her 4 times so far and not a single time has my dick been like rock hard. i can get it rock hard by myself at home for like a minute max. should i be worred? should i go to the doctor or something? and no, i'm not anxious while i'm fucking her, rather i'm sad and pissed that my dick isn't rock hard.
so is there a quick fix for this? i take zinc etc all supplements
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
Little blue pill.
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master-of-losers 4y ago
Erectile disfunction without any clear reasons may be an early sign of heart disease.
How old are you? What do you eat? How much do you exercise? Do you smoke?
Checking with a doctor may be a good idea.
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
Yes. Go to a doctor. Could be low tes, or anxiety, or whatever
In the mean time, try to change your lifestyle. Quit smoking, stop fapping, get in shape etc and see if they help. Good luck
pfeilmacher 4y ago
Try Vitamin V. Also, cockrings work great.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Maybe it's just your update in standards :). I can't get it up for a lower than HB7, I mean I can if she sucks me or so, but when I need to fuck her, my dick was slowly dying so that's why I stopped fucking lower than HB7. I also get bored easily from the same pussy, so if I have intercourse with a plate more than a dozen of times, I get all floppy and usually I keep spinning them just to suck me, until they get tired.
itsentirelypossible 4y ago
yeah this might be it. i'm pretty sure this is it, this woman was my first so i can't say for sure, but gotta try and find a hot chick to fuck to see if little guy wants to get rock hard.
unplugged69 4y ago
Did you find her hot? If yes, do you work out and are fit? If yes do you do drugs or too much alcohol? If no do you watch waaay too much fucking porn?
If you're young it's generally one of those things. There's an easy fix here, let me know what ails you first and we will help you fully unplug.
itsentirelypossible 4y ago
hot? it might be it. she's slim but not fit. my standards might be too high. she has some fat, not that much though.
i work out and i guess i'm fit. can see my upper abs but got some fat in my lower belly. no drugs, alcohol very rarely. no porn at all, quit 3 weeks ago.
unplugged69 4y ago
Okay 3 weeks is not enough if you've spent years watching it, not only have you desensitized yourself when seeing naked women but you've trained yourself to masturbate and orgasm when other chads fuck the girl of your dreams. It's a pretty fucked up trick they've pulled on us, releasing this degeneracy into society to make us complacent cattle.
The solution is simple but it will take time.
1 Never watch porn again, but you can masturbate thinking about women you've met or ideally women you've fucked
2 Try to take longer and longer between masturbation sessions, going no fap from the start will be hard and will lead to relapse so do this instead.
3 Do cardio and HITT, especially important if you are tall as you need a strong heart to pump blood through your whole body + a huge cock.
4 Keep gaming girls, talk to them, kino, escalate, basically the usual. Try to remove any psychological pressure and don't care about fucking them too much. Just go with the flow and enjoy it.
Now keep this up for 6 months to a year and you'll notice results. I had the same issue as you and this solved it, #3 was especially an issue for me in the past so now I always try to be fit not just have muscle as there is a difference between the two.
itsentirelypossible 4y ago
thanks mate. those are good points and yeah, porn did give me a wrong impression. i admit that, it is nothing like porn.
jerking off, should i really try and simulate myself, instead of death gripping my dick and trying to just nut lol?
i do cardio and hiit, not that much though. gotta up the volume.
and yeah, the thing is that i don't really see any girls that often (no time) but i'm really comfortable with myself talking to them. kino and escalating, not so sure. but i've learned to not be afraid of women, they're like me, a sack of flesh, just their body parts differ.
great advice brother thanks for that
unplugged69 4y ago
For jerking off, if you need to go for the death grip to cum then it hasn't been long enough, wait another day or two and try again. You need to train your body to understand you won't be cumming every day, when the chance comes your body will take it.
Let us know if you need help with dating/kino/escalating. There's only one formula that works well but that's probably a topic for another post
adam-l Moderator 4y ago
If you can get it hard by yourself, it's not erectile dysfunction. Dick hardness is an issue of the couple, not of the man exclusively. You simply don't desire her that much, that's all there is to it.
RedChurchill 4y ago
Sildenafil